You know what they basically are saying with this whole argument is that It's perfectly fine for straight people to be married but when gays try to make it so they can get married then oh it's a volition of the first amendment.
The same argument can be said with interracial marriages. Marriage shouldn't be touched on by the federal government because marriages are under god and it's a volition of the first amendment to try to change it, which is why blacks shouldn't be allowed to marry whites.
To those of you who say this type of thing, just take a look at yourselves and what you're doing right now about gays getting married. And picture how stupid you will look in 40 years from now like those who didn't want blacks and whites getting married.