Dear Mr Bruckner
Why don't use the nontheists the "materialist" terminology among atheists? Materialism is a natural, scientific description of the nature. It was the official ideology of the former socialist countries in Eastern Europe. I think atheism is an ideology "created" by the theists, but materialism based only our nature around us.
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