I often here people say im man im pissed that person made me upset, they will go through out there whole day dwelling on how this person put them in this state of mind hell i used to think like this as well and then it came to me im in control after all these are my emotions and there for i can control them. so the next time i came across someone who i did not care for i would acknowledge that i did not care for them but would remind my self that it is up to me how i feel. over time i have mastered my emotions. do people still piss me off? fuck yes they do but i do not dwell on it and i do not blame them for my state of thought. you and me are in full controll of how we act towards outhers and how we feel. there are times in our life when you do need to get pissed off when you do need to get angry and do something. but most of the time it is just your perception on this person and this person this bane of your life will go on to act like a shit among others believe me you are not special.