What event, book, lecture, or insight 'made' you and atheist? HMM?
While he was sick with cancer my dad once cut my religious comments off by saying, "I don't believe in that stuff." It was like a thunderclap at the very moment he said he didn't believe. I no longer believed. I had essentially been given permission to leave god. I had flirted with it before but it was just too far a leap for me. His moment of honesty gave me permission. After watching my parents suffer from cancer several times I had no more doubts that there was no god. I'd always been distressed, especially as a child, that god would let so many people suffer for no apparent reason. Watching them suffer and watching everyone pray and work to make their last days better clinched it. How could a loving god do this? If god was so sadistic it wasn't worth worship even if it was real. A lot of it is luck from cradle to grave. No one is looking at you from heaven. I could finally have some privacy.
Before he died he went back to his childhood beliefs and I feel they gave him comfort and strength. I do not look down on him for this. He gave me the gift of freedom first. Thanks Dad!
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Comment by Shannon on February 17, 2011 at 4:18pm Joseph- The intellectual lazyness is nothing compared to the amount of time and effort scholars put into justifying all this stuff. I always think of how much more good all these pastors (at least the decent ones) could do as social workers, medicos, therapist, and teachers. But no- they're just preaching the 'word.' What a waste.
Stephanie- I got into a fight with a Sunday School teacher who told a kid that her dog wasn't going to heaven. I just couldn't believe that.
Mike- Burn In Hell! I wonder why there isn't a horror movie made about that. "Drag me to Hell" was a movie about good people being taken to hell by evil forces. It's a good example of my feeling that Christians actually fear the devil more than they love god. How many people would be Christians if there was no devil to punish them for eternity. Or if god would protect you from being punished for your bad deed as long as you were in his club. God is culpable. The Devil is what keeps most people Christians. That and the joy of knowing you're better than so many other people.
Comment by Mike Haynes on February 17, 2011 at 1:53pm
Comment by Yusuf Said on February 16, 2011 at 1:14pm When I realized that "god" was simply an intellectually lazy patch used by the weak minded to answer questions beyond their understanding I became an outspoken atheist. People don't like unanswered questions because we are a curious people with a thirst for knowledge (even the creationist they just don't know it). When presented with a simple lack of knowledge like not being able to remember someone's name or the actor in a certain movie, it bothers people. Not knowing about the origins of the universe and our purpose is a problem most people cannot cope with, so they slap the god patch on it.
who created the universe? god
what cures AIDS? magic pixies
what causes bad things to happen? demons
where did the earth come from? unicorn tears
The patch can be god or any mythical thing, it's a path to a intellectual dead end. I realized that early in life and never looked back.
Comment by TNT666 on January 5, 2011 at 1:43pm
Comment by CDB on January 5, 2011 at 6:55am @ T Rose....
what the hell is normal? (sorry i dont know what word to use yet in place of hell)
I did religion, new age, spirituality etc etc ad nauseum.... Hell(there i go again) I even got up before dawn to go hang out with some other freaks for the "harmonic convergence" in the 1980's at some point.
Point is we struggled, searched and thank "sweet baby jesus" we found our way home to ATHEISM
Comment by T Rose on January 4, 2011 at 9:46pm
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Comment by Shannon on January 3, 2011 at 10:11pm Mosh- There's no there there! : )
T Rose- Do not for a second think that it's embarrassing to say it took 44 years to become an atheist. Some people never see the light. Having been raised and continued to believe all kinds of crazy religious and spiritual stuff- it's really hard to break away from a mindset that almost everyone holds and almost no one examines or even allows to be examined.
Comment by MoshingTick on January 3, 2011 at 9:58pm
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