I posted a note a few days ago about my young brother-in-law who killed him self just this past Saturday. Obviously, emotions are very raw still and I wouldn't dream of saying what I am posting here to any of my family members. My sisters-in-law and their parents are now struggling with exactly where is he NOW? One says he could not possibly be "saved" and so must be in Hell. Another says, he must be being punished by God before he enters Heaven, and others say he must be in Heaven already. How terrible that these people are torturing themselves with imagining terrible scenarios for this young man. Isn't the grief of the loss enough? As an atheist, I feel the loss very keenly! I face my emotions honestly and it's not pretty. At least I am not tormented by imagining further pain for this boy we all loved.