After going through a dramatic break-up, a cousin of mine got in touch with me, and dropped some, much to my surprise, encouraging words of wisdom. The next day, this cousin sent me one of those texts that requires you to message 10 or so other people. It was something like "Deny your Heavenly Father Which is in Heaven, and He too will Deny You...Send this message to blah blah blah." I'm thinking how wise this cousin is, and how I'd probably stay in contact with her from now on because she imparted words of wisdom without backing her claim with Jesus and the bibile. However, she just confirmed that religion is so embedded in our society that it never fails to disappoint me.
But that text made me think about denial. If I continue to deny my nontheism, theists will continue to rule my life. But Every important person in my life (those I need for support) is a believer. I feel like some of us are forced to deny and acquiesce because we don't have anyone in our corner and don't want to lose what little we might already have.
As a minority and a Southerner, it's not a easy...
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Comment by Lyra Silvertongue on February 4, 2011 at 12:26pm
Comment by Lyra Silvertongue on February 3, 2011 at 10:58am it is the exact opposite. Gays are proud and independent, whereas most African-Americans are in self-denial and assimilate no matter how much they try to deny this. I see gay minorities who have higher self-esteem that straight ones, although mostly male. Sociological, I agree, in addition political as well as psychological.
I studied Af-Am Lit as apart of English, and the recurring theme from the 1600s (onset of slavery in N.Americica), past Emancipation and reconstruction, until now in virtually all black literature both fiction and non-ficiton is the importance of black spirituality and the black church--with only a few contemporaries like Malcom X (though a Muslim) and Toni Morrison criticizing it. In reality, to take religion away from the average black family is like taking away oxygen. So, you can imagine the vicious attacks of the threat of ruining tradition.
I think all those hundreds of years believing didn't do too much. Some say, "We wouldn't be free today..." That is SO not true. Emancipation would have occurred much sooner (before some 200 years!) had religion not been so deeply embedded and misinterpreted within the minds of Southern blacks and whites alike.
I will post another blog, and would love to have your feedback.
Comment by Lyra Silvertongue on February 1, 2011 at 12:41pm I would say that taking the initiative to send those things does imply somewhat of a belief in it. The folks sending them and continuing the chain either a. are religious and conscious of it, b. non-religious folks wanting to play pranks lol o,r c. religious just because someone said so.
However, I do agree that not wanting to get chains is does not necessarily mean one is an atheist. It could be a christian who is upset that someone would even doubt their piety. lol
Comment by Prog Rock Girl on February 1, 2011 at 11:59am
Comment by Lyra Silvertongue on January 30, 2011 at 5:52pm H
i Diane. Fortunately, I think most already suspect. That is a good thing. My closest friend seems that she would still be there for me. Family, on the other hand, is a different situation. Most believe that, and I don't know if you're familiar with this rule, whatever an "unsaved" and a non-christian does, no matter how beneficial to society it is, is done in the name of evil. For instance, they'd say that Oprah's free gifts and her philanthropy are to no avail. It's still wicked if not done in the name of Jesus Christ. I recently discussed this with a grandmother and thought, " Wow, this religion feeds off of labeling others as evil so that the believers feel "chosen." It's soo unfortunate that they see such deeds as evil. How far from the truth it is! I could go on and on...
Yes, their problem. Not mine. But I'm kind of a person who--I am an educator by profession--feels like people need to know the truth. WHat good am I doing if I just ignore their beliefs and don't try to show them the path to reason. I guess some are chosen to understand, and others are not.lol :)
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