Now that i am typing these words i don't feel good . because i had a quarrel with my mother a few minutes ago.
perhaps a quarrel is not a good topic to start a blog but i want to do this.

I rarely watch TV but my mum watches a lot. this noon she told me look this girl(in TV program ) wants to have right of divorce before marriage.(in Islam women can't divorce without their husbands' permission and that TV program wanted to denounce the girl's behaviour!) I replied every woman must have this right and this Islamic law is very ridiculous . then my dad said would you give this right to your future wife. I said yes of course but i won't give or promise any dowry (in Iran and other Islamic societies almost all women want a big dowry however in most cases they don't take it until they get divorced and it will remain just as an official promise) I added : "marriage is just a shared life with love for me and I don't give any shit to your Islamic rules" then my father told these are laws and rules of your society and people live with them and you won't succeed with these thoughts . I angrily replied "Fuck this society!!! Fuck its rules and laws and..."
my very religious mother wanted to defend her Islamic laws. at last I replied her "Mohammad and his Islam counts you as an animal . in the eyes of Islam and Mohammad all women are like their husbands' animals even less ...
then i returned to my room and opened Firefox and ...

I was very nervous in those moments but now I am a little regretful not for what I said but for making her sad.
i guess she has cried! :(


not related : if you mention me any grammatical or structural mistake I will thank you a lot.

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Comment by ObscureAtheist on March 5, 2009 at 2:39pm
thanks for your attention Sydni.
in fact I have thought about your way before and even try to test it by signing up in some dating site or try to find some online friends .but the probability of success has been very low and i think it s natural. when i put myself instead of that supposed girls i see that at least it needs a great courage and there are few reasons for a girl to do it. now most my close online friends are aged people whom i enjoyed them but are not suitable for this purpose.
Comment by ObscureAtheist on March 5, 2009 at 12:06pm
yes i don't broadcast my beliefs because i want to preserve my head .(however some people who were close to me were affected and left islam)
I want to emigrate and really i like immigrate to those countries you mentioned . but immigration is not so easy for Iraninans. the easiest way for me is educational visa to continue my education there but i can't afford its costs there. perhaps i ll try for work visa for Australia ..(but there is no guarantee for succession)
Comment by ObscureAtheist on March 2, 2009 at 1:33am
thanks but i am almost sure that i won't see the end these beliefs in my life at least here in iran
Comment by cj the cynic on March 1, 2009 at 9:53am
You are quite brave for defending your beliefs and challenging the islamic rules that your parents believe in. This is the kind of defiance that is needed to weaken and eventually eradicate islam and all religions. Try to have a calmer discussion next time, though.

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