no32209091I simply can't stand us. Really I can't. We crack me up.

I've written before about the endless obsession of the freethought community with labels: atheist vs. humanist, atheist vs. agnostic, humanist vs. secular humanist, nonreligious vs. nonbeliever vs. Bright.

I don't mind someone saying why they choose one over another, or why they switch back and forth in different situations. What I've had enough of is people insisting, loudly and self-righteously and endlessly, that one or more of the labels is an affront to all things good and mustn't be used, period.

It's not that I don't find the discussions interesting, even revealing. They are. And I do have my own carefully-considered preferences. But in flinching and thrusting and parrying every time someone attempts to denote something, we run the serious risk of gazing so intently at the labels in our Laputian navels that we never get to substance.

The latest entry in this silly and counterproductive grumblefest came after Barack Obama chose, in the first twenty minutes of his presidency, to acknowledge the existence of nonbelievers -- to say, in no uncertain terms, that this is our country too.

Most of us fell over in (what else?) disbelief. But how did some members of our fine community respond? By whining, in blogs and comment threads across the country, because he used the word "nonbelievers."

"I DO have beliefs, thank you very much," said more than one of these into-gift-horse's-mouth-lookers, unable to bear the fact that "belief" is easily understood in this context as "religious belief."

I get similar umbrage from UUs on occasion about the subtitle of Parenting Beyond Belief: On Raising Ethical, Caring Kids Without Religion. "We are a religious organization," sniffed one UU minister in turning down my offer of a seminar. That's right -- she went for the emphatic trifecta, bolding, italicizing, AND underlining the word.

I can stand knowing that various groups and individuals understand the word "religion" in various ways. I have my preference and even my arguments for why I prefer it. But I am comfortable living in a world where "religion" means different things to different people. I now always use "theistic religion" to make myself understood to UUs. Non-UUs understand my meaning without it.

I digress.

Much of the protest over "nonbeliever" is that it defines us in terms of religious believers. I care about this no more than the fact that "nonsmoker" defines me in terms of smokers and "non-idiot" defines me in terms of idiots. You don't find many non sequiturs up in arms about being defined in terms of the hated sequitur, nor are the nondescript or noncommital often irate about comparisons to the descript and commital.

Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr. seemed not to find their advocacy of nonviolence diminished by the lexical negation of violence. Nor does Nonviolent Peaceforce, the nonpartisan, nonprofit NGO (that's "non-governmental organization") for which I work. For each and all of these terms, the prefix is a non-issue.

So why do we continue to waste our pique on such terms as "nonbeliever" and "nonreligious"? I find them both useful and economical. Pile on your polysyllables and modifiers as you wish. I have things to do.

Views: 2

Tags: labels

Comment

You need to be a member of Atheist Nexus to add comments!

Join Atheist Nexus

Comment by Daniel on February 17, 2009 at 6:51pm
Reformed what, may I ask? My wife and I met in a Reformed Baptist church and eventually migrated to a PCA church which was also Reformed.
Comment by Dale McGowan on February 17, 2009 at 3:05pm
What a coincidence! My wife's family is Jumping Calathumpian (Reformed).
Comment by Chrys Stevenson on February 17, 2009 at 3:01pm
My Dad was an atheist before the word was widely used. If asked about his religion he'd respond that he was a Jumping Calathumpian.

I agree about the pointlessness of worrying about labels, Dale. Let's just get on with the political business of fighting for secular governments, judiciaries, government institutions and schools and not worry about what people call us in the process.
Comment by Dale McGowan on February 17, 2009 at 2:55pm
"Neoadeist." I adore that.
Comment by Father Nature on February 17, 2009 at 2:51pm
I completely agree with you Dale. I don't really care what variant of 'non-believer' you call me. I use different terms myself, depending on my mood. They all basically just describe someone with a functioning balony detector.

If I'm talking to a religious militant, I avoid the A-word simply because of the emotional charge that it carries for them which prevents any real communication. Sometimes, for fun, I'll make up a new term like 'neoadeist'. It forces them to ask questions instead of parroting what they heard in bible class.
Comment by greyfoot on February 17, 2009 at 1:12pm
Consider also, Dale, that a fair number of, if not most, fellow "atheists" (should I be putting that in quotes now?) prefer even not to label ourselves as anything. Concurrence with you, though, on the essential speciousness of offense taken about "what to call ourselves," which, I feel, denotes more of the quibbler's personal insecurity rather than a desired taxonomy.

If forced, I'd choose the simple term "secularist," as it deals strictly with the tangible and empirical. But, semantically, one could write a book on how "inaccurate" such a term is, be he/she a "believer" or "non-believer." Communication, specifically the written and spoken word, is an odd thing. Despite all the beauty, erudition and ratiocination it can convey, it still has a tendency to oversimplify, and sometimes miss completely. Any rationalist with experience, however, knows this implicitly.

So let's just suck it up make do with what we've got.

Peace out,

grey
Comment by A Former Member on February 17, 2009 at 1:07pm
Yes, a lot of this has to do with lanauge and how it is used. A Baptist uses the term as a positive despcription of himself. I on the other hand use them term disparagingly. So how a term is understood depends on how it is used in a sentence, and the tone of voice that accompanies it.

Of course, there is the need or tendenacy, especially in young people, to want to find a label(s) for themselves -- as if by listing off a series of labels, others are able to understand who they are as a person. I have seen some people take that to an extreme. That is useful to a degree of course, as the "socialist" label roughly defines what a person's political and economic outlooks is likely to consist of. But some people cling to labels too severely, and they usually come across as just being sophomoric.

I must admit that I have not liked the term "non-believer" for the reasons you mentioned, it "defines us in terms of religious believers." But you do bring up some important and valid points for consideration there at the end.

Nice post.

Support Atheist Nexus

Donate Today

Donate

 

Help Nexus When You Buy From Amazon

Amazon

MJ

© 2014   Atheist Nexus. All rights reserved. Admin: Richard Haynes.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service