I have 2 sides of family......I have nothing to do with my father's side ever and my mother's side hate me as much as I hate them.

I usually do the holiday gathering to be with my mother but she is going elsewhere alone this year so my husband will want a big dinner and we have no kids just the 2 of us so I really don't want to make a huge freakin meal for 2 people but neither of us wants to eat out on thanksgiving..............but this family hates me as much as I hate them. There will be noone there we like, the only thing we want to do while out there is hunt deer or quail....but then others want to join in and we simply have no interest.

You see, I was born out of wedlock and to these so called christian people I am a sin that should have never happened and maybe if they don't look I will go away.............these people have so many dark little secrets and I know them all because I am one of them and they never let me forget it......I am an only child but my mother had been pregnant with another child but she had an abortion so there wasn't another sin.

What would you do?

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Comment by Louis on November 24, 2010 at 3:05am
damn it, corollary: Maybe they see him as family but for whatever sick twisted stupid god damned reason, they don't see you except as being attached to him. Honestly, don't go. Even if it's just for him, don't go. You don't need to be made to feel like shit on Thanksgiving. Maybe you could go with a friend? And maybe eating by yourself is at least slightly better than eating with people with daggers in their eyes.
Comment by Louis on November 24, 2010 at 3:02am
Fuck. If my spouse wanted me to break bread with people who think I'm below dirt, they can go on their own.
Comment by Adrianne on November 24, 2010 at 2:15am
However, I am a person non the less and who really wants to be alone? I'm a glutton for punishment I guess.
Comment by Adrianne on November 23, 2010 at 6:24pm
I think you are on to something. I usually have to take alot of alcohol with me to survive this crowd....they are bad for your health.

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