I might have made a blog about this ages ago, but then again I haven't been here in a while so Im just refreshing this idea of mine as it's come up again.
First off, I am not generalizing or discriminating against women in any way. My assumptions are soely based off of the women I've known personaly. If it seems offenseive, then I'm probably just speaking out of hate, so in advance, I'd like to apologize to anyone who will find what Im going to say offencive.
That being said, let's begin.
I'm a nice guy. I'm not just saying that I actually believe it. I put other's interests ahead of my own, I always make sure something's fair. I always try and cheer someone up when they're feeling down. I'd say I'm average looking, and a very respectful person. If this world made sense, nice guys like me would be able to find a woman with no problem, since women tend to claim that they want a man who respects her as a human being and not an object. Unfortunately this world never makes sense.
I've just got one question, why do women love jerks? I mean, you're with a guy, and he's a total ass and you break up with him and complain to your best guy friend who's a real nice and understanding guy. Sure he's made a few moves on you but you only like him as a friend, or a brother. He listens to your problems and offers whatever help he can when you're in a jam. He's always been your little buddy. So you go ahead and complain about how much of a jerk that guy was for cheating on you/hitting/verbally abusing or whatever he did, and he tells you that you don't need him. You're better than that and you'll find the right guy for you in the long run. You say thanks and are off on your way. One week later, what do you know? You're with another D bag and the cycle continues.
I don't get it. I mean, why would you say you want a guy who respects you when you're... not with a guy who respects you? I mean sure you can argue that nice guys are "boring" and they probably put you up on a pedistal and worship you to the point where you're just another "mother" in their eyes, but then again that person could be different. I may be a nice guy, but I have self respect. You punch me in the face and I'm punching back without question, but that doesn't mean that I'm suddenly above and rude to everyone. I've been raised on the idea that if you respect the woman you love, she'll love you too. My dad wasn't around either. In the words of Tylder Durden, I'm a generation of men raised by women. If you took one look at me, you'd think I'm a total wuss. But that's just it. I'm not a wuss, and women just don't seem to give me that second glance. Is there something wrong with being nice? Since when did society make looking out for other people viewed upon as a bad thing? Seems like it's been like that forever. What's the point of nice guys being nice if it gets them nowhere? Should I just put on sunglasses and a leather jacket and beat the living crap out of the next attractive woman I see? What exactly is it that women look for in a guy? I mean really because if I hear "A nice guy who respects me" one more time then I'm leaving this planet for good.