Marriage and children continued: Even if both of you are secular and agree to raise your children as such, you will find the culture - including in-laws, aunts and uncles, cousins, neighbors - tend to see parents who fail to infect their children with religion as negligent. Unfortunately, they think this gives them license to indoctrinate your children for you. If you were Catholic, they probably would not try to convert your children to be Baptist. If you…Continue
Praise the FSM: On Thursday, the first client connected with the first Therapist on the Secular Therapist Project and the therapist is within reasonable distance for the client. Yea, we are off and running. Secular Therapist Project
Announcing: Today we are live on the Secular Therapist Project. You can now register as a client and search for a therapist in your community. If you don't find one, you can still find many that will do distance counseling on the phone or by skype. Please check it out and tell your friends. It you are looking for secular mental health services, this is the place to look. If you are a secular therapist, please register with us. Click here:…
Last week we launched the Therapist Project. A nationwide effort to match secular clients with secular psychotherapists. We have gotten great blog coverage from Hemant Mehta and JT Eberhart as well as on some podcasts. Take a look at the comments section for both blogs and you will clearly see why this project is so needed.…
Thanks to Josh Hyde for a very well done review of, Sex and God
Added by Darrel Ray on April 8, 2012 at 12:47pm — No Comments
Tour Dates are all finalized for North Central book tour to include Detroit 4-24, Columbus, OH 4-25, Dayton 4-26, Madison, WI 4-27 & 28, Chicago 4-29, Lansing, MI 4-30, Toledo, 5-1.
Added by Darrel Ray on March 31, 2012 at 11:15pm — No Comments
Hre is my 25 min. talk at the convention on The Shame of Believing or Why Do We Act Like Christians? I suggest that we should rethink our sexuality as secular sexuals. Take a look and let me know how this idea feels to you.
Added by Darrel Ray on March 30, 2012 at 12:00pm — No Comments
In my convention talk, this statement got by far the strongest response.
"Homophobia, for many people, is rooted in guilt and anxiety about their own MASTURBATORY behavior and in the shame they feel about their own bodies." It is among the strongest challenges to religionists. Try using it on someone and see how they respond. Even if they vehemently disagree, there is no doubt that they will think about it the next time they masturbate. It is the most intimate thing you can do with…
There is far too much to post and discuss in a blog post about the American Atheist Convention. I'll just have to say it was unlike any convention I have ever been to. I hope the video's are up soon. My talk on "The Shame of Believing or Why Do We Act Like Christians?" seemed to resonate well with many people, but the talk that captured most people was Jerry DeWitt's. Take a listen to him on the…Continue
I am happy to report that one of the nude revolutionary photos was taken in my library - I'll let you figure out which one. Two others are friends of mine. I am proud of these women for their willingness to make a direct political stand against patriarchy and the oppression of women. Control of women's bodies is the cornerstone of patriarchal religion and societies. I am in awe of Maryam Namazie's courage in starting this idea.…Continue
Off to Dallas today to speak at Collin College on "Genes in Your Jeans: How much is our sexuality governed by genetics and how does that related to the way religion's try to program us?" Then a leadership workshop on Sat. and speak at Southern METHODIST University on "Sexy Evolution or What the Pope Does Not Know About Human Sexuality." Gotta love those Methodists. I got my MA at a Methodist Seminary.
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I am planning my book tours. Dates and locations are not locked in, but if you are in these areas, keep an eye on my calendar at ipcpress.com or contact me if you might want me to do a talk in an area that is not on my calendar. If you are in these areas, contact your local leaders to see they are sponsoring or might help promote. These dates and places are subject to change and addition. Here are the proposed locations:
April 24 Detroit or Toledo
April 25 Columbus
Added by Darrel Ray on February 24, 2012 at 5:30pm — No Comments
I will be on the Nirmukta podcast in India, tomorrow at 10:00 AM. Should be fun, especially since have made some comments and claims about Hinduism in two of my books. Nirmukta podcast
Added by Darrel Ray on February 17, 2012 at 1:04pm — No Comments
This from Noelle Dildine George - If you are a parent, you will find this useful and fun. Here's another chance to participate in the Introduction to the Parenting Beyond Belief webinar with Dale McGowan, live on streaming video! The event will be on February 19th at 12:00 EST, and will include a 30 minute overview of 7 secular parenting topics along with 30 minutes of interactive Q&A with Dale for only $15! Please e-mail firstname.lastname@example.org with 'PBB Webinar' in the subject…Continue
Dusty does a good job of capturing the key points in a coming out conversation with parents. Cult of Dusty
Added by Darrel Ray on February 9, 2012 at 5:24pm — No Comments