I came to atheism after much inquiry, self-reflection, and rational thought, at the end of last year.  My wife and I married in a Protestant church 3 years ago, after I thought I had a personal revelation, which was, in effect, a realization of my own potential to take control of my life.  I was raised Catholic, and went through all the hoops/sacraments.  I am now engaged periodically in an uncomfortable discussion with my wife as to how to raise or 2 children.  I am of the opinion that the…