It's a very difficult choice. The hardest part is, what is best for you, might be bad for your wife.
You good intentions show - you are so concerned about your wife, even though she lied to you a lot.
What would happen…"
"I pretend or simply do not tell her because it would hurt her. Why would anyone think that a couple is of the same mind? How could they possibly be? When do two people living together make the same discovery at the same time? It simply does not…"
When I woke up one day to discover that I was an atheist, I also realized that all the rest of the world was brainwashed. That meant all of my friends and family, everybody I ever knew. It meant I was isolated from everybody else. It appears…"
"You aren't alone in feeling that way - in thinking about "the big leap" of going away - and being afraid - or knowing - that you won't be able to see your family again.
Maybe you can go to another country and take your wife…"
"Khaled, I have no idea whether this will help or not. I have faced some difficult decisions in my life, but never with the kind of hostile environment that you do, nor with the kind of harsh alternatives your situation presents you with.I can…"