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Visions of Hell

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The end is always nigh in the human mind, by Michael Shermer

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Physics and the Immortality of the Soul

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Can an atheist be a fundamentalist?

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Morality is a Culturally Conditioned Response

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Predictions For 2011 — From 1931

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Justice: What’s the Right Thing to Do?

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THE RISK OF TOO MUCH FINALITY

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About Me
Thank you for visiting my page. I'd like to write a little about myself, but I've never been good at restraint, so I will probably write too much about myself instead.

Who am I? I cannot really say. To say that I am this or that runs the risk of too much finality, and I will have finality enough when I am dead. I agree with the concept that life is a process and not a product. A journey, not a destination. The unfolding of matter and thought—where it is the unfolding that is important, not the unfolded.

It is incorrect to say that existence is this or that, when in reality it is both this and that. A seemingly endless ebb and flow of inconsistencies and jumbled contraditions; disparate elements elbowing one another for a seat at the table of life. Both the mutable and immutable. The noble and the base. The fecund and the barren. Light, and dark.

And there—in each and every one of those things—lies existence, without destiny or purpose. Breath for the sake of breathing. Life for the sake of living.

How then can I describe a self that defies definition—the model that won't sit still for the artist—that which moves, and breaths, stoops and extends, expanding, contracting, and replicating. That which submits, then conquers—which seeks out meaning, and then hides from the answers.

We do well to ask: Is 'the self' something that is waiting to be revealed, or something waiting to be created?

Or is it an artificial construct, a device of the senses that says: Because I can sense that over there, that I must, by necessity, be me over here? Or is that the other way ‘round?

We should not hold too tightly to conceptions (or misconceptions) about who and what we are—such errors lead to stagnation, overconfidence, and vanity. And what is vanity, if not the most deceptive, treacherous, and enduring of human failings.

While I freely admit that there is, in fact, a singular me that has proceeded in a path from birth to the present moment, I am no more the me of 40, or 30, or even 20 years ago, than the sun of today was the sun of yesterday. Well, not exactly anyway. It is the same sun and it is not the same sun, and there is no contradiction in that observation.

I would say that the process of my life is pretty much like any other life: I usually reside in either a state of happiness, or sorrow, or somewhere in between. Either I am filled with expectation, or burdened with resignation. Withdrawn and sullen, or eager and vivacious. At times confident, at others submerged in the depths of self-pity.

Does that not then make me just another human being?

Faults and failings, aspirations and virtues, strengths and weaknesses, confidence and insecurity, knowledge and ignorance, self-awareness and self-deception—they are all mine. I claim them, and I have a right to them.

Like all of us, I am seemingly in control of my life. I choose what I want to wear, who I will vote for, what I will have for lunch, who I will befriend, and when I will go to bed. And yet, I was born into circumstances over which I had no control—into a place, into a time, into a culture, into a nation, into a race, into a zeitgeist, and into a body I did not choose.

I awoke, and here I was. And I will sleep, and be no more.
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If we go back to the beginning, we shall find that ignorance and fear created the gods; that fancy, enthusiasm or deceit adorned them; that weakness worships them; that credulity preserves them and that custom, respect and tyranny support them in order to make the blindness of men serve their own interests. If the ignorance of nature gave birth to the gods, the knowledge of nature is calculated to destroy them.
- Baron D’Holbach

God is a placeholder for our ignorance. Saying God did it is just saying that some phenomenon that is hard to understand is caused by some being that is impossible to understand.
- Jeremy Beahan

I am against religion because it teaches us to be satisfied with not understanding the world.
- Richard Dawkins

My atheism, like that of Spinoza, is true piety towards the universe and denies only gods fashioned by men in their own image, to be servants of their human interests.
- George Santayana

Never let your sense of morals prevent you from doing what is right.
- Isaac Asimov

The terrible immoralities are the cunning ones hiding behind masks of morality, such as exploiting people while pretending to help them.
- Vernon Howard

Theology is never any help; it is searching in a dark cellar at midnight for a black cat that isn't there.
-Robert Heinlein

There is no nonsense so gross that society will not, at some time, make a doctrine of it and defend it with every weapon of communal stupidity.
- Robertson Davies

I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco

When men stop believing in God, it isn't that they then believe in nothing: they believe in everything.
- Umberto Eco

To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead.
- Thomas Paine

A pious man is one who would be an atheist if the king were.
- Jean de La Bruyere (1645-1696)

Say what you will about the sweet miracle of unquestioning faith, I consider a capacity for it terrifying and absolutely vile!
- Kurt Vonnegut

The memory of my own suffering has prevented me from ever shadowing one young soul with the superstition of the Christian religion.
- Elizabeth Cady Stanton

Surely the immutable laws of the universe can teach more impressive and exalted lessons than the holy books of all the religions on earth.
- Elizabeth Cady Stanton

I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do, because I notice it always coincides with their own desires.
- Susan B. Anthony

Kill a man and you're a murderer, kill many and you're a conqueror, kill them all, you're a god.
- Jean Rostand

The word god is for me nothing more than the expression and product of human weaknesses, the Bible a collection of honourable, but still primitive legends which are nevertheless pretty childish. No interpretation no matter how subtle can (for me) change this.
- Albert Einstein

All religions, with their gods, their demi-gods, and their prophets, their messiahs and their saints, were created by the prejudiced fancy of men who had not attained the full development and full possession of their faculties.
- Mikhail Bakunin

A man is accepted into a church for what he believes and he is turned out for what he knows.
- Mark Twain

It is not hardness of heart or evil passions that drive certain individuals to atheism, but rather a scrupulous intellectual honesty.
- Steve Allen

Millions of innocent men, women and children, since the introduction of Christianity, have been burnt, tortured, fined and imprisoned; yet we have not advanced one inch towards uniformity.
- Thomas Jefferson

It is an interesting and demonstrable fact, that all children are atheists and were religion not inculcated into their minds, they would remain so.
- Ernestine Rose

I condemn false prophets; I condemn the effort to take away the power of rational decision, to drain people of their free will—and a hell of a lot of money in the bargain. Religions vary in their degree of idiocy, but I reject them all. For most people, religion is nothing more than a substitute for a malfunctioning brain.
- Gene Roddenberry

Dallas Gaytheist's Blog

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The Art of Failure: Why some people choke and others panic

Posted on December 8, 2011 at 5:00pm 2 Comments

This is a great article by Malcom Gladwell about how we sometimes fail under intense pressure to perform well, because we either choke or panic. He briefly describes the difference between implicit and explicit learning, and how these relate to choking and panicking under pressure. Well worth the long read. From the…

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Fanatics Attack

Posted on November 7, 2011 at 5:35pm 3 Comments

This is a decent article. He starts out with a pretty good assessment of what a fanatic is and wants, but then he suddenly changes gears to talk about literature and humor. Kind of caught me off guard, but if you read the tagline he tells you he's gonna do that. Worth the long read. 



He has some good observations:

 

"Conformity and uniformity, the urge to belong and the desire to make everyone else belong, may be the most widespread if not the…

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Is myth more comforting than reality?

Posted on October 4, 2011 at 12:57pm 5 Comments

Is myth more comforting than reality?

 

by Quinn O'Neill

 

For parents wishing to introduce their children to a scientific worldview, two new books may make the job a bit easier. Daniel Loxton’s book “Evolution: How We and All Living Things Came to Be” recently won the 2010…

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At 9:22am on February 6, 2012, Brian McLindenBrian McLinden said…

Hey Dallas!

You wrote -- "I awoke, and here I was. And I will sleep, and be no more."

How about this -- "We are born alone, we live alone, and we die alone. And for all of that we are not lonely if we keep at our side, the self we learned to love."

Still trying to learn this site -- How do I get from the MAIN page to the link for the COMMENTS WALL page?

Write me anytime, we might have lots in common,

Brian.McLinden@gmail.com

Worcester, MA

At 6:50pm on December 15, 2011, Ruth Anthony-GardnerRuth Anthony-Gardner said…

Dear Dallas, I'm far more likely to reply to your A Trick of the Eye discussions if you include illustrations. It's hard for me to get into long text discussions of art I've never seen. You're an artist, I hope you get the need to see.

At 8:59pm on December 10, 2011, Steph S.Steph S. said…
Hi Dallas! Hope you are doing well.
At 10:47pm on December 7, 2011, TNT666TNT666 said…

We should all give up caffeine :)

Just wanted to thank you for your constant efforts in bringing readable materials to the forum. Others I can often respond to off the cuff... but you, I collect your posts and read them later when I have more time to give :)

At 6:14pm on December 3, 2011, Christina MarloweChristina Marlowe said…

Forward Away!!!!  Enjoy!!!!

Cheers,

Christ

At 6:05pm on December 3, 2011, Christina MarloweChristina Marlowe said…

If you're so inclined, please have a Look at My Hilarious Irreverence photos, and if you've even more spare time,  look at the three short Hilarious Videos;  I do think that you would GREATLY appreciate the truly hilarious humor!!  Let me know what you think...

Thanks,

Christ (ina)

At 2:10am on October 27, 2011, Cane KostovskiCane Kostovski said…

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torture

 

Torture, according to the United Nations Convention Against Torture (an advisory measure of the UN General Assembly) is:

...any act by which severe pain or suffering, whether physical or mental, is intentionally inflicted on a person for such purposes as obtaining from him, or a third person, information or a confession, punishing him for an act he or a third person has committed or is suspected of having committed, or intimidating or coercing him or a third person, or for any reason based on discrimination of any kind, when such pain or suffering is inflicted by or at the instigation of or with the consent or acquiescence of a public official or other person acting in an official capacity. It does not include pain or suffering arising only from, inherent in, or incidental to, lawful sanctions. --UN Convention Against Torture[1]

 

At 12:07pm on October 26, 2011, Cane KostovskiCane Kostovski said…
No, not just because I am an Atheist. I did stupid things many times over the years and the result is everyone who hears of me harasses me. I kept a lie going for 17 years and now I am paying for it. I lost my family (wife, son, daughter, granddaughter). They won't stop. They drove me to the point that I wanted to die and my ex-wife thoroughly enjoyed it. That hurts more than I can say.
At 11:45am on October 26, 2011, Cane KostovskiCane Kostovski said…
Nobody says anything with words, only actions. It's a long story, and they make me feel I deserve everything. Who? Everyone I know.
At 12:14am on October 26, 2011, Cane KostovskiCane Kostovski said…
Well, I know I am a good person. I am not perfect, but I am good. If I find that I am not good, then I will no longer exist. They have angered me to the point of hopelessness. The pain is unbearable. If I am not a good person, then I am not worth saving.

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Chris Volkay commented on Dallas Gaytheist's page 'Books by A|N Members Who are Published Authors' in the group Nexus Book Club
Hi. I wanted to add my books here. They are, Above Us Only Sky-A Novel, The 98 Things Socrates Would Know if He Were Alive Today and We Hold These Truths; Deconstructing What We Believe To Be Reality. They are all available at my website.…
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Steph S. commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
Hey Big Blue Frog! Yeah that experience sounds terrible. You would think after all this time there would be no cliques -- but I guess they didn't get wiser with age - they stayed the same. Some people never change it seems. Good thing you…
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Steph S. commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
Cool video - and from TX too! yay
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Steph S. commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
I have never been to a reunion -- don't want to look back.
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Loren Miller commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
Marcella has TALENT, plain and simple, and her video is professional in all aspects.  I wonder if she produced it and if not, who did!
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Sentient Biped commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
I'm thinking I won't go.  It would be nice to see certain people only if they are now in wheelchairs, with leg ulcerations, abusive spouses cursing them for being incontinent, and skin diseases.  Nicer, if I met someone and found…
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Dallas Gaytheist commented on Claire Donnelly's group 'Gay Atheists: LGBTQ nontheists and friends'
Ha, I like that term "homocon."
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Loren Miller commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
I went to one (and ONLY ONE) high school reunion, the year after I graduated.  Total waste of time.  Never did a college reunion, nor will I, nor do they get so much as a dime of support from THIS alumnus.
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Sentient Biped commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
I have a high school reunion coming up this year.  I keep trying to think of whether I will miss anything by not going.  Those people were such cretins.  It's 2,000 miles away.  I think I won't go.  I don't…
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Loren Miller commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
Me, I'm not so softy, though I appreciate what the young lady has done there.  What I AM is a former bullying victim who, were I able to confront any of the former perpetrators, would find many of them headed to the nearest emergency…
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Sentient Biped commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
I admit I cried too.  I'm such a softie.
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Dallas Gaytheist commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
Dammit, where's my box of kleenex? I'll put this on the homepage.
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Sentient Biped commented on Dallas Gaytheist's group 'It Gets Better: Atheists for a Bully-free America'
nice effort by 16-year-old singer/songwriter Marcella Fruehan from Dallas TX.
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Dallas Gaytheist replied to Dallas Gaytheist's discussion 'Guys, what do you look for in a boyfriend?' in the group Gay Atheists: LGBTQ nontheists and friends
If I'm ever in Dallas, I will definitely take you up on that!   You won't find a nicer guy in Texas! : p   I also think that most of us saw through into the emptiness of materialism.   I never considered myself that…
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Sentient Biped replied to Dallas Gaytheist's discussion 'Guys, what do you look for in a boyfriend?' in the group Gay Atheists: LGBTQ nontheists and friends
David, you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and your feet on the ground.  I'm far from someone who can advise, but I moved from Indiana to Oregon when I was in my late 20s.  It was quite a culture shock.  I loved…
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David Philip Norris replied to Dallas Gaytheist's discussion 'Guys, what do you look for in a boyfriend?' in the group Gay Atheists: LGBTQ nontheists and friends
If I'm ever in Dallas, I will definitely take you up on that! I'm not interested in money or social status either, although I'm finding more that fewer gay men are obsessed with that sort of thing anymore. Part of it is so few of us…
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Dallas Gaytheist replied to Dallas Gaytheist's discussion 'Guys, what do you look for in a boyfriend?' in the group Gay Atheists: LGBTQ nontheists and friends
I'm in the same boat   David, if you ever come to Dallas, you have a guaranteed date. : )   and am starting to think the the Midwest is just not the place to find a long-term relationship.   Well, shit, I'm in the heart of…
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