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How do you deal with being disliked / hated?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Luara 1 hour ago. 41 Replies

This is one of many things that I handled better when I was younger. When I was in high school, I didn't give a rat's ass what anyone thought of me. After a lot of teasing in grammar school and…Continue

Tags: dislike, ostracize, hate, friends, loneliness

Discouraged: just got back from chorus practice

Started this discussion. Last reply by Luara Aug 29. 19 Replies

I haven't sung in the local community chorus for a few years. I decided to re-join this semester, but after tonight, I'm seriously re-thinking that decision. I'd forgotten how the community chorus is…Continue

Tags: loneliness, fml, alone, ostracized, choir

My grandmother died on the 10th

Started this discussion. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Jun 18. 28 Replies

I'm not sure I can go to her funeral due to health issues, but I'm already dreading it. I've had to explain my general distress a few times, once to the manager of my apartment complex. She said,…Continue

My mother and I had another fight and I'm worried about the future.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Craigart14 May 28. 19 Replies

Could you please read this? I really need some support and I don't have any atheist friends.First of all, I'm female. Maybe that will color the tone of this post. I don't know. I can be both logical…Continue

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Luara replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"I would have left decades ago if it were possible. Why is it not possible?  Is what you actually mean, that you aren't yet desperate enough to leave?"
1 hour ago
Atheist in FundyLand replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"You are too kind, but I am good enough to know I'm not that good."
2 hours ago
Freethinker31 replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"I gave you my thoughts  on that Fundyland.....It may  be time  to strike out  on your  own and find people  who  appreciate  you as a person  and your singing talent."
2 hours ago
Atheist in FundyLand replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"Well, I feel like utter crap. A little note from one of the chorus board members made me realize I'm not wanted. There goes my only form of socialization. Fuck."
2 hours ago
Freethinker31 replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"You obviously don't even realize how beautiful  your voice is...Either the Chorus is jealous  of you or feels threatened  by you......My advice would be  to send  this tape to an agent or agents and get…"
16 hours ago
Atheist in FundyLand replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"Thanks, Freethinker. It's becoming apparent that I'm no longer welcome in chorus. Yet without it, I have nowhere to socialize. I really hate living in this town and if I don't get out, it's going to kill me."
17 hours ago
Atheist in FundyLand replied to Freethinker31's discussion Are Atheists too judgmental??
"I agree with you, Loren. Circumcision of babies when they are too young to consent is abhorrent. If men choose circumcision when they come of age, that's fine. However, I see no good reasons for making such a choice, only religious and…"
Monday
Joan Denoo replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"OK, you say, "You word  your  arguments in a way that can be hurtful". Give me an example, please. "
Monday
Joan Denoo replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"Chris, You are welcome. I hope it is helpful to those who seek approval or agreement. "
Monday
Plinius replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"A clear outline, thanks Joan!"
Monday
Freethinker31 replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"@Matty    Why is love and flattery  scary??   We all need  both  and  many  never get enough......Never  be a phony  to win  friends  for sure,  it will bite you in the  butt…"
Sunday
MattyLJ replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"I don't know about there being a need for rejection.  Sometimes love and flattery can be scary but I don't want to be a reject.  But would rather be a reject than act phony to win friends"
Sep 14
Freethinker31 replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"Just so you  know Joan,   I do not hate you.......You  have  a right  to your  opinions....With that said...You word  your  arguments in a way  that can be hurtful.....I believe  in debating, but…"
Sep 14
Joan Denoo replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"By the way, I am hated, and I mean hated, by a good many people because I take stands on controversial issues. Life is not a game to be dependent, passive, submissive, acquiescent. Life is to be lived, fully, powerfully, intelligently, lovingly,…"
Sep 14
Joan Denoo replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"Well, I listen to the comments and decide if they have any merit. Then I decide if I want to agree with them or if I just dance to a different tune than others. If I am being honest and it is a values call, I choose honesty over the consequences of…"
Sep 14
Freethinker31 replied to Atheist in FundyLand's discussion How do you deal with being disliked / hated?
"@Pinius....I am sure  we would  like  to do that, however  that is not  what will happen....The only answer  is  to either  shower  them  with  kindness so that they  feel  guilty…"
Sep 14

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At 7:10pm on January 9, 2014, AgeOfAtheists14 said…

that's funny icon!~!!

At 7:15pm on May 16, 2011, Ruth Anthony-Gardner said…
Greetings, Atheist in FundyLand! I notice you haven't been active at Atheist Nexus lately. <sigh> Sometimes it can seem a bit fragmented, with different groups for every interest. Please consider a group for socializing, where we talk about whatever's on our minds, Hang With Friends. :D You might feel more at home.
At 3:19am on February 1, 2011, Ellemar said…

If you're lonely, send me a message! I like to talk and talk and talk. I followed your link to your blog and like it very much.

Sorry if I sound like a creeper, but the thought of someone being lonely always makes me sad.

At 1:15am on December 24, 2010, Jonathan Hugo Pienaar said…

Love your logo ;) I see we enjoy some some of the same things, like Brian Dalton (Mr Deity). If you are into podcasts, take a listen to Chariots of Iron and Atheist News - I think there is a lot there you can relate to.

j

At 6:30pm on December 18, 2010, Dr. Terence Meaden said…

Hello and welcome to this wonderful world of freethinkers with their good sense, intelligent reasoning, and freedom from believing in fictional gods.

Religion means control, which sadly so often starts by indoctrinating innocent children. 

Terry Meaden 
We invite you to join the busy group "ORIGINS: Universe, Astronomy, Life, Earth, Humans, Religion, Evolution, Darwin..." with its 370 discussion topics and 2200 members.
http://www.atheistnexus.org/group/originsuniverselifehumankindanddarwin

 

At 7:32am on December 17, 2010, Carla said…

Hello & welcome :)

At 11:15pm on December 16, 2010, Atheist Princess said…

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