Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced by Sweet Machine Phaedra Starling is the pen name of a romance novelist and licensed private investigator living in small New York City apartment with two large dogs. She practices Brazilian jiu-jitsu and makes world-class apricot muffins "Gentlemen. Thank you for reading. Let me start out by assuring you t…