Share 'Take Responsibility For Your Beliefs!'

I'm having an epic email discussion over at my blog. Helen wants to save me, of course. I told her I thought that the idea of hell made God a sort of monster, and I explained it pretty thoroughly. Well, now of course, she says God doesn't want me to go to hell, etc. etc. I asked her who made the rule that if I don't love God I go to hell. First email: you don't have to love god, you have to…