Grief is not to be avoided, but embraced to give voice to the voiceless and suffering.   What is the sound of grief? What is the sound of grief arriving in the heart? Does it arrive like the decisive snapping of a twig…or is it closer to the rolling thunder, lashing rain and buffeting wind attendant to a terrible storm. Grief seizes you as if you are being blown, buffeted, broken apart, and shat…