Share 'Better dead, than old and gay?'

I've been mulling over this a bit, wondering what to express.  Therapist Bob Bergeron, a self-appointed guru of healthy aging for gay men, committed suicide at 49.  He was author of an unpublished book, "The Right Side of Forty: The Complete Guide to Happiness for Gay Men at Midlife and Beyond." and gave seminars on that topic. * For some reason, I feel more pissed off at him, than grieving for h…