So, we found out my mother in law has lung cancer last week. The fundies at my work (my wife works there too in another dept.) have already started. It's difficult for me to know how to respond to this. Acquaintances keep coming up saying "We've put your in- laws on our church's prayer list!". I usually kind of say "Um....ok...... thanks? I gotta go." and I know it comes off completely disingenuo…