Share 'Family members praying or thinking of you, when you need their help not their thoughts'

I have family members who are a bit self-absorbed and spend time only when it fits in their schedule.  Then they say "Oh well I've been praying for you" and “holding you in my thoughts” and "sending you love every day!"  I feel like they think off the hook and they don't have to feel obligated to give me any kind of assistance, and they don't have to feel guilty about neglecting me, because in th…