Hey Dr Kellie, does your friend work at "Purina Farms" science lab out in Grays Summitt? If so, I really could stop by and say Hi as I only live a few miles away. Love the dog shows there
so sorry, I apparently missed your weather bitch! Yeah we've had a lots of -35C this winter, it's been around -20C all this week. I lived in Florida and Caribbean for several years, so when I returned North, I had to purchase winter apparel, I hang out in thrift stores and buy old silks and woollens, they're great and cheap, while everyone else is freezing their butts off. In Canada, silk and wool have practically disappeared from the market, it's all petrochemicals now :(
im sure it is absolute hell being gay and under the roof of religion and my hart goes out to everyone who had had to go through that hell the teens who kill them self s because of small town bigotry to the adults who are scared for life because of that they had to endure growing up. dan savage has started a wonderful sight called itgetsbettter.org to inspire and give advice to gay lebion and transgendered teens and adults struggling with hate and predigest
Greetings, Dr. Kellie ! I'd like to invite you to a group where we talk about anything on our minds, Hang With Friends. :D Yeah, funny how being gay isn't as scary as atheism to our relatives.
Basically, yes, but it was a bit more complicated in my case. When I was much younger, I did try to leave Austin several times but always got pulled back.
If you'd ever like to get together when you are here, I would like that very much.
I suppose I can kinda take a bit of credit - he asked me out but it was my idea to go to the theatre (ostensibly to see what was on, I hadn't actually imagined seeing a play but serendipity struck) and I took him to the fountains - a true romantic heart beats within this chest - we sat on a park bench and hugged, could have stayed there all night like that.
Thanks, dr. kellie, I appreciate the explanation! So far, I have found this site to be friendly and full of great information. I hope I can add to discussions :)
Met up at the cinema again. Spent a short while in the coffee house getting reacquainted then about 6 off the restaurant. food was okay - not worth the price it cost - but oh well.
Sauntered over to the park with the fountains, and discussed more about what we like music wise and so on, just getting to know each other, gradually edging closer there were semi-intimate hugs - and then there was a naked man.
Across the way a bloke had emerged from the crowd and was getting undressed. He was down to his boxers - and then those came off two exposing his danglies for all the world to see, he then dove into the fountains, did a lap of the park for good measure and then got redressed. His mates were filming it, so I imagine the entire event is on youtube by now.
After that brief flurry of excitement we bid a retreat back to the coffee shop to warm up with some tea, innuendo and reminiscence about the cute naked guy's bollocks and arse.
Tea drunk it was off to the station,but - oh no! The last train left 5 minutes ago, the next one isn't for another hour and a half - how ever will we pass the time?
Solution: head back to the park where naked running man was earlier, for a protracted and wonderful make out session. Hugging, Kissing, Fondling, Necking, Ttongues - all on a public bench in full view of the theatre crowd who were by this point coming out from the cultural quarter.
That was fun. Kissing Boys - I definitely like it!!!
Then back to the station for the 11:21pm home. One final kiss on the platform and then we broke apart.
3rd date with Andy was on Friday. Nothing much to report - my man was a bit out of sorts, something was on his mind so date wasn't quite as successful as the last few.
One nice moment train home was on the far platform and to get to it you walk through this wee tunnel, and as we walked in I pulled him aside and we kissed.
That was nice.
When we broke apart he walked out onto the platform and said "huh - the train's not here."
"Good." I said. Grabbed him by the lapels and pulled him back into the tunnel for more kissing.
This was even better. soft, slow, deliberate and wonderful.
That made up for the rather lacklustre preceding hour or so.
Made plans to go together to Manchester next week. That seemed to perk him up. I think he's just a bit down where he is.
I hate to say it but I wouldnt know Tracy Morgan if he came knocking on my front door and said "Hi, I'm Tracy Morgan". So the first thing I learned of him was his homophobic rant. He might be able to make friends with Mel Gibson and Michael Richards. They could star in a remake of the Three Muscateers or something.... Thanks for commenting, glad you are hear. Always love what you have to say. Daniel
No accounting for the taste of a little gay boy in the midwest.... i had another photo in a tap dancing getup as a sequined cowboy, but they only take one pic. i would post it here but for soem reason cant get nexus to upload pics now.... prob for the best. Have a happy sunday.
Ah my dear, these past couple of months have revealed the true nature of several male members. Unfortunately, many atheists are still very entrenched in their Christian upbringing, that is: misogyny. I, the tomboy, have been hangin' with guys all my life, and not always the nicest guys. There's a part of me that is SOOOOOO used to it, as you may be professionally, and as long as we shut the fuck up about things we're fine right :) But as soon as we rock the boat a little, the shit hits the fan! However to read a teenager perpetuating the same 'old boys club' talk, that is extra depressing. And in the end, teenaged males OWN the internet! That's why at the moment I'm working at politics back in real life instead of the internet, looking to start a local atheist network, working with the local feminist organisation, and in the green party, I'm coming at the 'world order' from all three angles :)
Please don't stop posting. I know there are several people here who appreciate your input much.
I'm thinking of a completely different internet discussion which brings out the most vitriol imaginable from ignorant "fly-by" participants, patience and wit eventually do half of them in, facts...meh... there are always "published" pseudo-facts on both sides of any debate and non-scientists usually can't distinguish pseudo-facts from actual ones, facts can always support two sides of any debate, they know no master :) Resilient ugly posters simply create an unappealing display which in the end hurts their cause anyway. I've seen it happen elsewhere. Look how Susan used to agree with TByte... no more :)
hi doc ! thanks for the friend thingie - i love that sign - it's the straights fault for haing gay babies. i'm on the floor laughing. :]
why did you get interested in meself? what did i say? what didn't i say? i've met a few people now in texas thru this site - i guess i'm going to have to visit- jeez, texas of all places :)
i gather you watch those dance shows. can you tell i'm older than you? - LOL
Thought you might like to get to know this animator: Nina Paley. Some of her animations here. Her blog here.
I came upon her via those videos I posted on Childless... Fertco and Stork as Bird of War. She keeps her gay/agnostic status relatively silent though she's stated she's been out since 20s. Interesting lady, I think we'll be hearing much more from her in coming years.
Hi! And thank you for the Friend Request. I enjoy your posts in here very much, but I'm rather shy about initiating Friend Requests.
Veterinarians are my favorite people on earth (well, writers, too)...it must be terribly difficult to work with patients who can't speak our language. I speak a little Cat, but not enough. I have a dedicated head-bonker now, and he also drools all over me when he purrs. I love him! The other one must be part Abysinnian...he's 12 years old (13 in a couple of weeks), and still has the powerful hind legs that make him a graceful jumper.
Love your writing and honored to be your friend. I'm interested in how your "Storms are brewing..." evolve. A couple of my cousins let us all know they were gay in about 2000 and it was rough for a while ... but they are wonderful human beings and the family is coming around nicely. Hope all goes well for you.
hi doctor! thanks for the friend add - just wondering why you offered, as far as i can tell we haven't spoken before on this site. happy to have you, just wondering.
My cousin's daughter is lesbian and with a wonderful partner. Together they had three children by artificial insemination. They are the most super children one could hope for; obviously their home life is healthy. My aunt, a devout Roman Catholic, hated the thought and said some pretty awful stuff.
In a sudden, sever condition my cousin died on the operating table. We were all devastated. No longer able to live alone her lesbian granddaughter and family had their home raised up and build a home under it for my aunt. Can you imagine the emotional turmoil she experienced!? Here these two young women with three young children actually raised the roof for her. The story ends well, even as we all miss my beloved cousin.
I know. I have to keep reminding myself that she's an Aspie, and that it's too late to help her, IF she would accept help. (She's also a Jehovah's Witless, and they don't believe in psychology/psychiatry/neuro-science of any kind.)
My only excuse for ranting online is that after 67 years, her behavior does get on my last nerve. I fantasize about moving out and leaving no forwarding address.
I comfort myself with the fact that I still have our mother's other Pyrex stuff...baking dishes, etc. And my own small collection of Corning Ware. I love the Grab-Its for the microwave!
Oh, ew. That voice! Why do all those girls/women sound like baby ducks quacking? I'm usually in here at the computer with my back to the TV while my sister watches Jay Leno, and I can't tell which female is his guest unless I turn around and look at the screen. They all sound the same. Like the Kardashian sisters. Ick. Even some of the younger talking heads on the local news sound like that now. Srsly.
Hi, thanks. I work for a pecan ranch down here, plus a bit of landscaping for the bosses home. Lol, I too have been to the dairy queen here - the ultimate place for a treat. I am quite familiar with College Station too, nice to know there are a few sane people here in Texas. It's good to meet you.
Hi dr. I am a dr and I am living in TX too (Houston). Do you remember that you didn't like me a few months ago? :-)
Good that you forgot that. Let's be friends indeed. :-)
TNT666
Nice cut!
Talk about titillating!
Jan 28, 2011
Brianna Starfish
Feb 8, 2011
Brianna Starfish
Feb 8, 2011
LarryL
Feb 22, 2011
TNT666
Feb 28, 2011
Benny
Apr 14, 2011
Azel Praer
May 4, 2011
Azel Praer
May 5, 2011
Ruth Anthony-Gardner
May 12, 2011
Heather Spoonheim
May 20, 2011
Mary O'Grady
May 21, 2011
Mary O'Grady
Basically, yes, but it was a bit more complicated in my case. When I was much younger, I did try to leave Austin several times but always got pulled back.
If you'd ever like to get together when you are here, I would like that very much.
May 21, 2011
Mary O'Grady
May 21, 2011
Richard Healy
I suppose I can kinda take a bit of credit - he asked me out but it was my idea to go to the theatre (ostensibly to see what was on, I hadn't actually imagined seeing a play but serendipity struck) and I took him to the fountains - a true romantic heart beats within this chest - we sat on a park bench and hugged, could have stayed there all night like that.
Want to see him again! :)
Hope you have a night to remember too, K.
May 21, 2011
Paula T.
May 26, 2011
Richard Healy
Great thanks.
Met up at the cinema again. Spent a short while in the coffee house getting reacquainted then about 6 off the restaurant. food was okay - not worth the price it cost - but oh well.
Sauntered over to the park with the fountains, and discussed more about what we like music wise and so on, just getting to know each other, gradually edging closer there were semi-intimate hugs - and then there was a naked man.
Across the way a bloke had emerged from the crowd and was getting undressed. He was down to his boxers - and then those came off two exposing his danglies for all the world to see, he then dove into the fountains, did a lap of the park for good measure and then got redressed. His mates were filming it, so I imagine the entire event is on youtube by now.
After that brief flurry of excitement we bid a retreat back to the coffee shop to warm up with some tea, innuendo and reminiscence about the cute naked guy's bollocks and arse.
Tea drunk it was off to the station,but - oh no! The last train left 5 minutes ago, the next one isn't for another hour and a half - how ever will we pass the time?
Solution: head back to the park where naked running man was earlier, for a protracted and wonderful make out session. Hugging, Kissing, Fondling, Necking, Ttongues - all on a public bench in full view of the theatre crowd who were by this point coming out from the cultural quarter.
That was fun. Kissing Boys - I definitely like it!!!
Then back to the station for the 11:21pm home. One final kiss on the platform and then we broke apart.
3rd date should be killer!
Did your "situation" go as well?
May 29, 2011
Richard Healy
3rd date with Andy was on Friday. Nothing much to report - my man was a bit out of sorts, something was on his mind so date wasn't quite as successful as the last few.
One nice moment train home was on the far platform and to get to it you walk through this wee tunnel, and as we walked in I pulled him aside and we kissed.
That was nice.
When we broke apart he walked out onto the platform and said "huh - the train's not here."
"Good." I said. Grabbed him by the lapels and pulled him back into the tunnel for more kissing.
This was even better. soft, slow, deliberate and wonderful.
That made up for the rather lacklustre preceding hour or so.
Made plans to go together to Manchester next week. That seemed to perk him up. I think he's just a bit down where he is.
Jun 6, 2011
Sentient Biped
Jun 10, 2011
Wanda T
Jun 11, 2011
Sentient Biped
Jun 12, 2011
Sentient Biped
Cool! I will so look forward to seeing it! This is great!
Jun 13, 2011
Susi Bocks
Jun 20, 2011
Peggy Wilson
Jun 25, 2011
Richard Healy
I'm surprised you've not been here to ask for the full debrief!! ;-)
Mike's like a fart in a factory of laughing gas.
Jun 29, 2011
Richard Healy
I've lain it all out in the R.T.O.H.H.V. ;-)
Funny that thread now has 12 posts while the main thread has - none.
Not that I demand to be the centre of attention but those wishing for serenity in their in-boxes now have their wish!
Jul 1, 2011
Farhad Roshan
Jul 2, 2011
Phenix
Jul 12, 2011
Phenix
Jul 12, 2011
TNT666
Ah my dear, these past couple of months have revealed the true nature of several male members. Unfortunately, many atheists are still very entrenched in their Christian upbringing, that is: misogyny. I, the tomboy, have been hangin' with guys all my life, and not always the nicest guys. There's a part of me that is SOOOOOO used to it, as you may be professionally, and as long as we shut the fuck up about things we're fine right :) But as soon as we rock the boat a little, the shit hits the fan! However to read a teenager perpetuating the same 'old boys club' talk, that is extra depressing. And in the end, teenaged males OWN the internet! That's why at the moment I'm working at politics back in real life instead of the internet, looking to start a local atheist network, working with the local feminist organisation, and in the green party, I'm coming at the 'world order' from all three angles :)
Please don't stop posting. I know there are several people here who appreciate your input much.
I'm thinking of a completely different internet discussion which brings out the most vitriol imaginable from ignorant "fly-by" participants, patience and wit eventually do half of them in, facts...meh... there are always "published" pseudo-facts on both sides of any debate and non-scientists usually can't distinguish pseudo-facts from actual ones, facts can always support two sides of any debate, they know no master :) Resilient ugly posters simply create an unappealing display which in the end hurts their cause anyway. I've seen it happen elsewhere. Look how Susan used to agree with TByte... no more :)
Jul 30, 2011
Kelly M
Aug 5, 2011
Cheryl
Aug 12, 2011
Cheryl
Aug 13, 2011
Susan Stanko
Oct 4, 2011
Susan Stanko
Oct 5, 2011
alexa penzner
hi doc ! thanks for the friend thingie - i love that sign - it's the straights fault for haing gay babies. i'm on the floor laughing. :]
why did you get interested in meself? what did i say? what didn't i say? i've met a few people now in texas thru this site - i guess i'm going to have to visit- jeez, texas of all places :)
i gather you watch those dance shows. can you tell i'm older than you? - LOL
Oct 7, 2011
TNT666
Thought you might like to get to know this animator: Nina Paley.
Some of her animations here. Her blog here.
I came upon her via those videos I posted on Childless... Fertco and Stork as Bird of War. She keeps her gay/agnostic status relatively silent though she's stated she's been out since 20s. Interesting lady, I think we'll be hearing much more from her in coming years.
Oct 8, 2011
Julie E
Oct 25, 2011
Joseph P
I'll let you do the preparation of that. I can't cook worth a damn.
Dec 7, 2011
Joseph P
Nah, I'm trying to cut back. I poke at it, but I don't actually eat that part.
Oh, wait, damn. That's the cervix I'm thinking of. Anatomy fail. That kind of screwed up that joke.
Dec 8, 2011
sk8eycat
Hi! And thank you for the Friend Request. I enjoy your posts in here very much, but I'm rather shy about initiating Friend Requests.
Veterinarians are my favorite people on earth (well, writers, too)...it must be terribly difficult to work with patients who can't speak our language. I speak a little Cat, but not enough. I have a dedicated head-bonker now, and he also drools all over me when he purrs. I love him! The other one must be part Abysinnian...he's 12 years old (13 in a couple of weeks), and still has the powerful hind legs that make him a graceful jumper.
Cheers! Happy solstice!
Felaine
Dec 20, 2011
Joan Denoo
Love your writing and honored to be your friend. I'm interested in how your "Storms are brewing..." evolve. A couple of my cousins let us all know they were gay in about 2000 and it was rough for a while ... but they are wonderful human beings and the family is coming around nicely. Hope all goes well for you.
Jan 4, 2012
matthew greenberg
hi doctor! thanks for the friend add - just wondering why you offered, as far as i can tell we haven't spoken before on this site. happy to have you, just wondering.
Jan 5, 2012
matthew greenberg
haha, thanks. i just removed him from my friends list. dude's got some screws loose.
Jan 5, 2012
Joan Denoo
My cousin's daughter is lesbian and with a wonderful partner. Together they had three children by artificial insemination. They are the most super children one could hope for; obviously their home life is healthy. My aunt, a devout Roman Catholic, hated the thought and said some pretty awful stuff.
In a sudden, sever condition my cousin died on the operating table. We were all devastated. No longer able to live alone her lesbian granddaughter and family had their home raised up and build a home under it for my aunt. Can you imagine the emotional turmoil she experienced!? Here these two young women with three young children actually raised the roof for her. The story ends well, even as we all miss my beloved cousin.
Jan 5, 2012
Joseph P
No worries. I was just playing around with the new toys. :-D
Jan 11, 2012
sk8eycat
I know. I have to keep reminding myself that she's an Aspie, and that it's too late to help her, IF she would accept help. (She's also a Jehovah's Witless, and they don't believe in psychology/psychiatry/neuro-science of any kind.)
My only excuse for ranting online is that after 67 years, her behavior does get on my last nerve. I fantasize about moving out and leaving no forwarding address.
I comfort myself with the fact that I still have our mother's other Pyrex stuff...baking dishes, etc. And my own small collection of Corning Ware. I love the Grab-Its for the microwave!
I just like kitchen toys.
Jan 16, 2012
sk8eycat
Oh, ew. That voice! Why do all those girls/women sound like baby ducks quacking? I'm usually in here at the computer with my back to the TV while my sister watches Jay Leno, and I can't tell which female is his guest unless I turn around and look at the screen. They all sound the same. Like the Kardashian sisters. Ick. Even some of the younger talking heads on the local news sound like that now. Srsly.
I'm so glad I'm old.
Jan 17, 2012
Sandi
Hi, thanks. I work for a pecan ranch down here, plus a bit of landscaping for the bosses home. Lol, I too have been to the dairy queen here - the ultimate place for a treat. I am quite familiar with College Station too, nice to know there are a few sane people here in Texas. It's good to meet you.
Jan 25, 2012
Austin Meek
I'm so glad to find another fellow Texan who doesn't march to the beat of a religious drum!
Feb 13, 2012
ɟǝןıx dǝʇɹɐɹ
Good that you forgot that. Let's be friends indeed. :-)
Apr 11, 2012