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How flirty is too flirty for a married person?

If your spouse is kind, sweet person but a hopeless flirt, and it really bothers you - what do you do?

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    Saint Fillan

    I suppose this also depends on how you define flirting.
    Where are your boundries?

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      Lonna Duzan

      NEW TO THE GROUP AND JUST BROWSING, BUT I HAVE TO PUT IN MY TWO CENTS...TRANSITIONING GRADUALLY, AND WITHOUT INTENT, INTO A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HUSBAND, I BELIEVE THAT THIS IS A QUESTION OF "HOW MANY RULES DOES YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAVE - AND IS SOMEBODY BEING "OWNED" IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, OR DO YOU HAVE FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF, WITHOUT FEAR OF YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER HITTING THE ROAD?"

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        EJN

        How are you defining flirt? I find lots of problems with the word in general, because I have been branded a flirt before, but usually (like 99 percent of the time) I have no sexual undertone.