Feminism is not only the principle that men and women should have equal rights, but that those rights should not be defined in male terms. I'm for fairness. We have to meet somewhere in the middle. Men will have to give up a lot of privilege, but women will have to change too. A good start would be to see that all the uncompensated work that women, especially stay at home moms do be compensated.
Feminism 101 is a good place to start if you're unsure of what feminism is.