Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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Genital Video Game Controllers

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The other side-women and sexual freedom.

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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What do you yell in bed?

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Beautiful Cervix

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FREEOK 2013 - Emily Boyer: "Secular Facts on Sexual Acts"

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gender reveal parties

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Men have sex and women make love. Or do they?

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Clits 101

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FS: My virginity mistake

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On sexual objectification and subjectivication

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Does sex keep you younger?

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Music during sex

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Comment by Sean Murphy on January 22, 2011 at 7:56am
Women have been know to experience this allergy for years - it is one of the things they test for at Infertility Clinics - this is the first that I have heard of men having this allergy though.
Comment by Joseph P on January 21, 2011 at 9:35pm
That would suck even worse for a gay guy, too.  Imagine giving a blow job, when you've got that kind of allergy.  For that matter, are women particularly prone to that allergy?
Comment by Kelvin Hilerio on January 21, 2011 at 6:07pm
Oh wow that sounds unfortunate for them, i would not want to be allergic to my own semen, i hope there is a cure or at least something for allergy relief.
Comment by A Former Member on January 21, 2011 at 3:49pm

Sneezy After Sex? You Could Have Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome

If you experience feverish, burning-eyed orgasms, don’t rejoice–you should probably consider visiting your doctor. Scientists believe such flu-like symptoms arise when men are allergic to their own semen.

It’s called post orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS). Although the term has been around since 2002, researchers led by Marcel Waldinger, a professor of sexual psychopharmacology at Utrecht University in the Netherlands, have for the first time shown that some men suffer from a semen allergy. Such men, after ejaculating, not only have burning eyes and fever-like feelings that can last for a week, but also feel as tired as post-marathon runners and have noses that run faster than Usain Bolt.

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Comment by Joseph P on January 18, 2011 at 1:39am
Hmm, need someone to help me take my one fantasy out for a spin ...
Comment by TNT666 on January 18, 2011 at 1:04am
Exactly Joseph :)
Comment by Christopher Baughman on January 17, 2011 at 11:29pm
It can still be a kink / fetish though. ;)
Comment by Joseph P on January 17, 2011 at 11:28pm
Hmm.  I'd have to read it again.  I don't remember it at all.  I consider a sexual fantasy to be something that you're not already getting or have gotten on a regular basis.  Once you have a partner who enjoys the same sort of thing and participates in your fantasy periodically, it stops becoming a fantasy and starts being something that you do.
Comment by TNT666 on January 17, 2011 at 11:07pm

middle of the night hey! :P


As I said, it's his definition of fantasy I had issues with, it was just such xtian definition! It smelt like a definition by a religious prude... :(  I can't be bothered to return to the bloody thing and find it, I just remember rolling my eyes upon reading it.

Comment by Joseph P on January 17, 2011 at 10:00pm

How so?  I'm not following you.  How does asking if you've fulfilled any of your fantasies have anything to do with faith?


Admittedly, I don't remember a lot of the details of what each section was like.  I did it in the middle of the night.


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