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Secular Sexuality

(NSFW) A no-taboo approach to sexual education and health.

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Sex for fun and non-procreation!

In this world, we can't get away from religion. We've been exposed to false information regarding contraception failure rates and experienced the STD scare tactics. Some of us may even have gone through abstinence-only sex education!

Here in Secular Sexuality we will discuss:

-sexual health in light of peer-reviewed science
-safe for work guides on safe(r) sex (or links)
-questions that would shock the religious

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Cliteracy

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BDSM

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Sex Tips

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Ezekiel 23:20 – Bible Porn?

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What do you yell in bed?

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Beautiful Cervix

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Non-monogamy

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FREEOK 2013 - Emily Boyer: "Secular Facts on Sexual Acts"

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gender reveal parties

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Men have sex and women make love. Or do they?

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Clits 101

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FS: My virginity mistake

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On sexual objectification and subjectivication

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Does sex keep you younger?

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Music during sex

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How flirty is too flirty for a married person?

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Sexual Harassment and Assault at Hooters

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In Soviet Russia Orgasm has You

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Comment by Joseph P on September 25, 2012 at 10:11pm

They seem pretty reliable to me.  ^.^

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 10:04pm

From my understanding, vaginal orgasms are much less common.  It is good to differentiate the two.

Comment by TNT666 on September 25, 2012 at 9:56pm

We should distinguish here clit and vaginal orgasms as they generally experience different timing. IME clitoral orgasms anywhere from 15-60 min. Vaginal orgasms from 5min to not at all. But vaginal orgasms are less reliable.

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 9:21pm

No, no, no...my boyfriend can be ready to go in 15 minutes.  I need hours to be ready to reach orgasm.  I hate to get TOO personal here, but it's very rarely a quickie for us.  We are also older than you, Joseph, and that can make a difference in the amount of time it takes to reach orgasm.  I hope I followed your comment correctly.

Comment by Joseph P on September 25, 2012 at 9:03pm

*blink*

15 minutes?  As in, you have an orgasm, and then you need to have a 15 minute break before you're ready to give it another go?

Jeeze, that would be frustrating as hell, for me.  15 minutes in, I'm still usually coming around to my first orgasm, and my partner has generally had 4 or 5.  Not sure I could ever reach orgasm, under those kinds of constraints.

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 8:55pm

And that is regarding being able to reach orgasm.  I don't need to have an orgasm every time we are intimate, but I still enjoy it immensely.  

Comment by Paula T. on September 25, 2012 at 8:54pm

Sorry, I should have made my statement more clear.  I think men are lucky in that they have a shorter refractory period.  My boyfriend can be ready to go again after 15 minutes or so.  NO WAY can I do the same.

Comment by Joseph P on September 25, 2012 at 7:31am

I'm not sure it's the same thing, in men and women, though.  I don't think women have a refractory period in the same way men do.  Sure, you've got a period between orgasms, but it's not the same as the one most men experience.

Every woman I've slept with can be brought back around to orgasm in 2 or 3 minutes.  I've got a defective refractory period, myself, so I do a thorough job of testing.

Guys are lucky in which way, Paula?  I'm not following you.

Comment by Paula T. on September 24, 2012 at 9:18pm

I WISH I had a short refractory period!  TNT666 is right, but it's not something I've discussed with many women.  My boyfriend can - guys are lucky that way, I guess.  Great video, thank you, Ruth.

Comment by TNT666 on September 24, 2012 at 8:44pm

Minor reality points... Nearly all women I've discussed this with (and in my 46 yrs it's been a lot) do indeed have a refractory period. Multiple orgasmic women are not the norm, in fact, I've only ever met one. I wish they didn't use the word gender in these things too, when they're obviously discussing genital sex and not some mind concept of gender.

 

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