Has anyone ever attended an orgy or sex party?

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Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 24, 2009 at 3:14pm

...because it was more or less 2 couples having sex side by side.

Yeah, that sounds like a pretty unorgiastic event.

...one of the definitions for orgy on Miriam Webster's site says "drunken revelry"....

The Bacchanalia usually involved a drunken revelry, orgiastic sex, and sometimes death and dismemberment.

Permalink Reply by Nate on July 25, 2009 at 9:55pm

If there's no snowballing, it's no orgy.

Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 25, 2009 at 10:08pm

I am so naive. What is snowballing?

Permalink Reply by Nate on July 25, 2009 at 10:49pm

I am so naive. What is snowballing?

You'll find out when you attend your first orgy.

Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 25, 2009 at 10:52pm

So I'll never find out! I can't get it one on one. What makes you think I'm gonna strike oil and get a bunch at once?

Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 26, 2009 at 6:18pm

Thanks for that, I think. Gee, I guess I'll have to pass on that experience. I can do without it.

Permalink Reply by Ariel on July 24, 2009 at 5:51pm

Never been involved in any multi-partner sexual activity. I'm not opposed to it on principle - the issue has never come up - but I suspect that's a nogo with my partner. I wonder if being in a committed relationship would make it more or less awkward.

Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 24, 2009 at 6:24pm

I think that would just depend on the couple, what they were interested in, and how prudish or open they were. I think it would only get weird if it became emotional for one or the other partner with a 3rd person.

Permalink Reply by Dallas Gaytheist on July 26, 2009 at 6:24pm

I can understand how that would be awkward. But then again, none of us really have role models for sexual expression. The West is just too prudish to teach their kids how to do it right, and to be open to the ideas of sexual experimentation. We are all just basically making this up as we go along, so we're bound to get some things wrong.

Permalink Reply by Prog Rock Girl on August 20, 2010 at 8:05am

What Eastern countries do you think are sexually liberated?

Permalink Reply by Scott on July 29, 2009 at 10:00pm

Unfortunately many men have a "Tag it, and bag it" mentality when it comes to sex outside of a relationship. That is why most women will not sleep with their guy friends. Apparently we cant have it just once. It sucks to say it but it almost has to be like a business deal! Very clear lines must be drawn or it can become really ugly, especially if it is someone you are around all the time. I have found that Threesomes usually work out best if the third person is a stranger who neither of you will ever see again. This also adds an element of excitement to the experience.

Permalink Reply by The Nerd on July 27, 2009 at 8:09am

Me and my boyfriend joke about having a 3-way, but he has told me he isn't ready for something like that. I can understand the hesitation, because I'm sure it has to be a shock seeing my partner with someone else, even if I know it's not for keeps.

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