Recovering from Religion

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Recovering from Religion

Unless you were raised by atheist parents, you probably had some recovering to do when you left religion. The purpose of RR is to provide a landing place for people when they jump from religion. With local support groups throughout the US, Canada, UK, and Australia, and real-time resources accessible to everyone, RR is where to turn when faith has lost its luster.

Website: http://www.recoveringfromreligion.org
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Members: 549
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In what way are you still recovering from being brought up religious?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Richard C Brown yesterday. 57 Replies

I was brought up in a fundamentalist family.Anyone still dealing with any issues from religion?Do you fear the result of coming out Atheist to your family?Any thoughts are welcome.Continue

Catholic Family / Atheist Wedding - HELP

Started by Megan. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck May 31. 4 Replies

Any one else out there still recovering from Catholic guilt??I come from an extremely Catholic family/upbringing. In 6 days I will be the first person in my entire extended family not to marry a Catholic in a Catholic Church.My biggest source of…Continue

Anyone still deal with anything like this?

Started by Starland Victor Seay. Last reply by Matt Skaggs Aug 26, 2013. 27 Replies

One thing I have noticed is a tendency to "doubt" my new path in life. I still want to reach for the Bible sometimes. I still hesitate somewhat when someone mentions Pascal's "Wager"...LOL! Even though I know that science teaches this and that no…Continue

"Thief in the Night"

Started by cbenhamcox. Last reply by Luara Aug 18, 2013. 2 Replies

Last night I was reading Seth Andrew's book, Deconverted, and I almost fell out of my chair when he discussed being forced to watch the end times film from the 1970's call "A Thief in the Night."  He described some of the scenes, and I had a…Continue

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Comment by Tammy S on May 31, 2012 at 2:00pm

Will Do! Thank you for all you do for the community Darrel, it is deeply appreciated!

Comment by Darrel Ray on May 31, 2012 at 1:55pm

As you know, Han Hills and I have been working nonstop on the Secular Therapist Project for the last six months. As of last week it is live and fully functional. But, in order for it to be successful, we need your help. We need you to tell any secular therapist that you know to register with us. If you are a student, tell your psychology professors about this. If you are currently seeing a good therapist that respects your atheism, tell them to register with us. We also need to let anyone looking for secular mental health services know about this service. Please take a look at the site, especially the FAQ.  Thanks for helping us get the word out.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2012 at 11:27pm

Dan, I am really happy to read of your starting a group in Columbus and wish you great success. Please keep us informed on your progress and offer us some ideas for discussion. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 29, 2012 at 11:25pm

Darrel, great idea about a secular therapist project. I shall enjoy observing your progress, please keep us informed of the kinds of things that work. 

Comment by Darrel Ray on May 21, 2012 at 8:38pm

Announcing: Today we are live on the Secular Therapist Project. You can now register as a client and search for a therapist in your community. If you don't find one, you can still find many that will do distance counseling on the phone or by skype. Please check it out and tell your friends. It you are looking for secular mental health services, this is the place to look. If you are a secular therapist, please register with us.

Click here:

Find A Secular Therapist

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 21, 2012 at 3:58pm

As a former Sunday school teacher and bible study group leader a time came when I put my three kids in the car with their pillows and blankets, two cats and two litters of kittens, and a crock pot and swore "God damn you god, god damn you jesus, I worked hard for you and you had me bound to your silly nonsense for your own reasons, not for my children's or my good" all the way from Texas to Washington state. It took me a whole day to get out of Texas and a car break down in some forsaken place, and we made it. I think I even might have said a "fuck you". No, that didn't come until a couple of years later. 

Comment by Richard Goscicki on May 21, 2012 at 2:31pm

A lot of people don’t realize the power and control religion has over the mind.  As Salmon Rushdie says in The Satanic Verses, persons badly infested by religion have every aspect of their lives dominated and scrutinized by religious beliefs.  Idiology controls how they think, what they eat, how they have sex, what they wear, whom they affiliate with, the very words that come out of their mouth. 

 

So being liberated from religion is much like getting out of prison.  Much of behavior we take for granted has to be relearned.

 

Comment by L.Hunter on May 21, 2012 at 1:05pm

@ Providence. I Haven't chimed in for some time. However I too agree with the previous posts by everyone, esp Joan Denoo. I remember coming out and thinking I was like a toddler again. I had to retrain myself on how to think about life, diverse coping skills, what I thought about death, homosexuality and a host of other things. Religion is a mentally safe place for many people. When we get stressed or venture to unfamiliar territory it's our instinct to pray or perform some religious rite. I remember when I stopped believing after I read Thomas Paine's "Age of Reason", I wanted to bow my head and thank god he didn't exist. How silly is that? Anyway its only been a year. It will take time to unlearn all the BS religion has taught. In the meantime enjoy the ride and everyday will get better and brighter

Comment by Dan DeMura on May 21, 2012 at 12:14pm

I am excited to announce we're starting up a group in Columbus Ohio for those in the area... and or know people in the area. Facebook page is here  http://www.facebook.com/RR.Columbus  I will be putting up a meetup page very shortly.

Comment by Dan DeMura on May 21, 2012 at 12:12pm

@providence... I would agree with other comments here that it's a natural reaction to turn to the familiar comfort that you can find in religion, especially in times of stress. I would suggest taking a broader view of spirituality as Sam Harris has pointed out (even from an atheistic view) just because we deny the existence of the supernatural doesn't mean we can't experience in some sense spirituality. I personally feel a greater awe and wonder for the Universe and love for my fellow man than I ever did as a believer... perhaps take a look at other cultures and belief systems not to convert to them but to gain a better understanding of humanity as a whole. Joseph Campbell is an awesome speaker on the power of myth and anthropology. I would suggest you look up 'The Hero's Journey' that way when you're stressed you may "feel" things but you know they are simply part of the process of being human and the "myth" of Christianity was what at one time brought you comfort but doesn't mean it's true and as time passes it doesn't mean it will always be the only thing that brings you comfort because again the universe is an amazing thing.

 

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