Recovering from Religion

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Recovering from Religion

Unless you were raised by atheist parents, you probably had some recovering to do when you left religion. The purpose of RR is to provide a landing place for people when they jump from religion. With local support groups throughout the US, Canada, UK, and Australia, and real-time resources accessible to everyone, RR is where to turn when faith has lost its luster.

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Has it Been Easy for Anyone?

Started by Nathan Hevenstone. Last reply by Loren Miller on Thursday. 8 Replies

I wonder if anyone who's gone from faith to non-faith has done it relatively easily? I ask because, for me, it's not really been that tumultuous. I guess it has a lot to do with my upbringing. Despite my family being really religious, it has also…Continue

Anyone still deal with anything like this?

Started by Starland Victor Seay. Last reply by blue pashmina on Thursday. 24 Replies

One thing I have noticed is a tendency to "doubt" my new path in life. I still want to reach for the Bible sometimes. I still hesitate somewhat when someone mentions Pascal's "Wager"...LOL! Even though I know that science teaches this and that no…Continue

Walking Away

Started by CD Free. Last reply by Diana May 2. 9 Replies

I'm guessing many here walked away from one religion or another. What religion did you walk away from? Did you look at other religions, if so what ones? What made you settle on Atheism?Continue

Maintaining family ties

Started by Diana. Last reply by jon taylor Apr 30. 11 Replies

I was adopted into a fundamentalist Seventh Day Adventist pastor's family. My parents loved me and I enjoyed a happy and secure childhood. Although I felt disappointed that I couldn't take dancing lessons, be involved with local theater or…Continue

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Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 9:34am
enjoy.
Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 9:38am
i have yard work to do (yuck) and I'll check back in later. Shelby, we have a great community of decent, loving, caring human beings. Atheism, I'm finding, becomes easier as you embrace it, investigate it, talk about it with other non-believers and less polarizing when we do to religion only what it deserves: point and laugh. Enjoy the songs. We'll talk some more.
j.
Comment by Shelby Fisher on June 15, 2010 at 9:41am
Thanks, Joey. I really enjoyed the song. Talk to you soon.
Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 1:25pm
You're very welcome. Remember: Laugh. Let the theists argue. The burden of proof is on them, not us.
Comment by Shelby Fisher on June 15, 2010 at 1:43pm
Absolutely. I am pro-laughter... It's funny how a concept can become so ingrained in one's mind that even after dismissing it, it remains a part of life without any known existence. I find concerning myself with the physical world to be the most beneficial to furthering my understanding of anything, people, thoughts, emotions, etc. You?
Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 2:00pm
I only believe in the observable. I'm not a scientist, but I gotta see it to believe it. Our physical existence is the only real bite of the apple we get. That existence includes love, pain, grief, joy, laughter, unfortunate suffering, and loss. But it is the only trip we get to take thru this magnificent, serendipitous universe, and in the grand scheme of things, we're here for less time than the blink of an eye, then we're gone. And the universe won't even notice our absence. Only the ones we love and those who love us matter. We need to cultivate that love as much as possible and spread it like dandelion seeds. Setting those seeds upon the wind is up to us. And if it allows us to leave our little corner of our world better and cleaner, kinder and gentler than we found it, we've succeeded in our lives. No easy task and no higher truth that I know of.

j.
Comment by Richard Goscicki on June 15, 2010 at 4:06pm
Joeyess, neat post. I certainly agree. Our only afterlife is in the memories of others. That's why I wrote Mirror Reversal—an attempt to have my thoughts live on.

If everybody tried to make the world a better place—as you say, cleaner, kinder, gentler—if soon would be.
Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 4:20pm
Thank you, Richard. My journey to non-belief began 30 years ago. It's been a long, strange transition but I've found life and, yes, death much easier to deal with. No one suddenly becomes an atheist. Especially if you were bathed in "the blood" growing up. It's a long hard slog out of the dark realm of superstition to the warm light of reason. I'm still on the journey and the sun shines a little brighter every day.
Comment by Shelby Fisher on June 15, 2010 at 7:42pm
Well said, Joeyess. The cultivation of love and compassion are, I believe, our greatest challenge in the face of the our absurd world. It enables our action to spread, as you say, the seeds. The universe's indifference can be upsetting and liberating. Memory is a wonderful, terrible thing. Memory continues and I prefer it to be pleasant as often as possible. I find what helps me when conversing with a theist is to understand (when applicable) that the person is doing what they believe spreads this seed. While misleading, it many times is not a negative action and many people find comfort through it. We all have different requirements for comfort and I feel comforted when I see someone who has found some. We exist in the infinity of space and there are no rules regarding conduct. If what it takes for someone to find peace is for them to believe in a god or a unicorn or the goblin responsible for stealing their socks, I am just happy for them when it enables them to spread seeds of compassion and love and not partake in holy wars and ostracizing those who know these beings to be nothing at all but silly wishes. Sometimes, the end justifies the means.
Comment by joeyess on June 15, 2010 at 8:18pm
Thanks again, however I take exception to your statement that:

If what it takes for someone to find peace is for them to believe in a god or a unicorn or the goblin responsible for stealing their socks, I am just happy for them when it enables them to spread seeds of compassion and love and not partake in holy wars and ostracizing those who know these beings to be nothing at all but silly wishes.

I would prefer we leave silly superstitions behind, even benign ones. Because even the benign enables the extremist to exist. Indeed, I believe, that even the benevolent forms of belief enable the extremists to wrap themselves in a cloak of sacrosanctity. So, I'm in no way, shape or form very tolerant any longer towards believers because they do nothing to reel in their wing-nuts.

The one headline you will never read?

Fundamental-Atheist Group Blows Up Airliner. 300 Dead. Richard Dawkins Claims Responsibility.

So, no. I just don't think I'll give them quarter. I'll point and laugh or just quietly shake my head and walk away. Depending on their level of Teh Stoopid and my threshold for toleration of Teh Stoopid at that particular time.

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Pope's 'exorcism' caught on film video

Posted by Debra Stevenson on May 21, 2013 at 2:37pm 0 Comments

There is a video of the Pope's 'exorcism' caught on film.  The man isn't demon possessed, there are likely no 'real' demons.  He's just delusional and doesn't want to accept personal responsiblity for his own behavior for his own dysfunctional life.

 

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Do you support 'traditional' marriage, vot now ad

Posted by Debra Stevenson on May 21, 2013 at 2:28pm 2 Comments

There is an ad that reads ' Do you support 'traditional' marriage? Vote Now"!  .

 

 

No, I don't support 'traditional' marriage because there is no such thing. I support heterosexual and same-sex couples marry each other legally , yes.  'Traditional' marriage promoters largely do not believe that heterosexual women are co-equal to their husbands.  Their only purpose in 'traditional' marriage is to sexually satisfy their husbands if they can and raise children and do all…

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War on Christmas in May

Posted by matthew greenberg on May 21, 2013 at 12:18pm 6 Comments

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/21/texas-merry-christmas-bill_n_3312786.html?utm_hp_ref=politics

i've got no problem with everyone saying "merry christmas" on christmas day.  however, they've turned it into an entire holiday season where it lasts a month or more.  in those situations it should be perfectly acceptable to say "happy holidays" or call it a…

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My first funeral as an atheist

Posted by Two Cult Survivor on May 21, 2013 at 11:30am 0 Comments

I posted the bulk of this on another thread, but wanted to add some context separately.

I finally confronted my faith and embraced the fact of my atheism late last August, 2012. Days after I revealed my "epiphany" to a few friends who knew me from another message board, my sister died from Lou Gehrig's Disease (which pissed her off because she hated catching a disease from someone she never f---ed).

THAT was my sister, understand? She was a beautiful, life-loving, potty-mouthed…

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