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Loners and Introverts

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Group for those who are Introverted and those of us who are Loners. Someone who doesn't need other people around them to validate their own existence.

Location: Austin,TX
Members: 61
Latest Activity: Apr 30

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dying is ultimately lonesome and an unatheist confession meanwhile.....

Started by michele ricketts. Last reply by michele ricketts Apr 30. 1 Reply 0 Likes

People become introverts and loners on their death beds. I've noticed this in general and with people who i knew quite or fairly well. We die alone which is why people go scrambling to bond or correct or enforce the way they bonded with those they…Continue

Debunking Five Common Myths About Introverts

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Apr 25. 15 Replies 5 Likes

Debunking Five Common Myths About IntrovertsBy jenn-zeeWe live in the world ruled by the extroverts. "People's people" thrive in our society -- the quiet types get overlooked. There is a stigma attached to being an introvert. Introversion often…Continue

Has anyone told you that you need to change into an Extrovert?

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Prog Rock Girl Apr 24. 20 Replies 3 Likes

I told someone I was an Introvert recently and guess what the response was?Well, it was like this ... you can always change, you can become an Extrovert.Oh great.They obviously have no understanding of Introverts.Anyone have this happen to them?…Continue

It Sucks Being Guarded And Difficult To Love

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Feb 12. 2 Replies 2 Likes

I am guarded ( and I am always striving to improve) and I think many in this group might be.So this article I think is a very important one - full of self-discovery. Aug. 16, 2012By Christopher Hudspeth infoYou have to be close to someone to…Continue

Introverts at the job

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Jan 29. 13 Replies 2 Likes

I found this article very interesting - do you find this speaks to you?I find that it does describe me - some things in this I hadn't thought about - but sound right. Everything is personal (true) and there is no chance of friendship after the first…Continue

I Am a Loner

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Jan 9. 10 Replies 3 Likes

I found a wonderful website with other loners who share their stories.Many stories to read here. Many good insights.Some can be helpful to you. The one below sounds like something I could write myself.…Continue

5 Ways Introverts Rock

Started by Steph S.. Last reply by Steph S. Nov 11, 2012. 1 Reply 2 Likes

This is another awesome guest post from Nick Laborde over at www.thethriveblog.com, where he writes about personal development in a fun and not so serious way.Yes, Introverts Do ROCK!Introverts are not…Continue

Never an excuse

Started by Neal Schermerhorn. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 3, 2012. 11 Replies 0 Likes

(Sent this as a message by mistake. Sorry about that!)I was talking to a friend yesterday about this. Her husband is also an introvert and lives in his head like you'd expect. He is an artist, he is helping set up a museum, he works in a political…Continue

Office Bullying: How Do You Handle Gossip? Get Advice from the Sages

Started by Steph S. Oct 26, 2012. 0 Replies 0 Likes

I recently let go of a bully gossiper. So this will help you gain the strength to cut ties with someone who gossips. Believe me - run away from these types of people. IT is worth it!!“The most powerful force in the universe is gossip,” said Dave…Continue

Introverts as gossip fodder?

Started by Steph S. Oct 25, 2012. 0 Replies 2 Likes

Gossip - it is terrible. I hate gossips myself. I try to avoid people who gossip as much as possible. This can be hard in an office setting. The article goes into what we have to deal with.I like my privacy. I am a very private person. May 26, 2012…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on February 15, 2013 at 8:00pm: Gregory welcome to the group!

Comment by stellifery on February 15, 2013 at 10:46am: Thank you very much Steph!

Although I do enjoy socialising, I have throughout my life found that nothing beats time on my own to think, reflect and relax. I always thought that made me a bit weird, and part of the reason I went through depression was due to guilt for wanting to be alone. I read a useful quote that said something along the lines of "Life is all about balance - between working and playing; between spending time with others and spending time alone". It's good to be an introvert - to have enough confidence in yourself to be completely happy with nothing but your own company.

Monologue over! :)

Comment by Steph S. on February 15, 2013 at 10:41am: Stellifery welcome to the group!

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 12, 2013 at 10:27am: Happy Darwin day. Thanks for the poster Steph.

Comment by Steph S. on February 12, 2013 at 10:08am

Comment by Steph S. on February 10, 2013 at 1:00pm: DH welcome to the group!

Comment by Steph S. on February 3, 2013 at 6:29pm: Mori welcome to the group!

Comment by Steph S. on February 3, 2013 at 9:51am: Oh you are great Joan - never overbearing.
Thanks for the lovely comment Joan. And yes, we are loving and accepting and enjoy all the different personalities.

Comment by Steph S. on February 3, 2013 at 9:50am: Lonna welcome to the group!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 9, 2013 at 6:20pm: Ashley, my classmates all laughed when they saw my score because it fit me so well. Even the men in the class said I thought more like a man than a woman. I don't know if there is a correlation there, but I do like to get at the core of problems and stop moving chairs on the deck of the Titanic.

You will find this a very loving and accepting group, even as we have different personalities. They seem to forgive when I get overbearing.