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Living with a religious spouse

Love sees past many things and that includes religion. You and your significant other my love each other to the death but arguments come up about whats after death. Tell your stories here.

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Wife waiting for God to help us

Started by Mark Schwab. Last reply by Round Peg Apr 16, 2012. 10 Replies

 I am married to a very religious wife who puts all of her trust in her belief in god. To wit,we are in a not-very secure financial position, and although she has a job, she doesn't like it and it…Continue

So frustrated!!!!

Started by Shay. Last reply by Steph S. Oct 30, 2011. 5 Replies

Hey everyone!  I'm new to this site and group.  I feel SO alone!  I was born/raised roman catholic in NY.  My husband too.  I don't know what age I stopped believing but I think it was around the…Continue

Which came first?

Started by Prog Rock Girl. Last reply by Facts Before Faith Oct 20, 2011. 30 Replies

Did you become atheist first, or meet your partner first?For me I was in a relationship w/ my Catholic husband, I was in my pagan experiment at the time (being that he was fine with paganism and even…Continue

Inlaws

Started by The Big Blue Frog. Last reply by Steph S. Oct 9, 2011. 4 Replies

My wife is a Christian, albeit a liberal one, and we get along fine. The problem is her family. They are all Southern Baptist fundamentalists (YEC's, biblical inerrantists, etc.) and my wife's mom…Continue

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Comment by a angel on October 28, 2009 at 12:09pm
Well, not really a spouse, but very similar scenarios. More of an unrelated loved one. I favorite loved one. Does that count?
Comment by Prog Rock Girl on November 4, 2009 at 1:26pm
Hi, I am married to a Catholic who is not pro-life or anti-gay or any of the other conservative things associated with Catholicism, although he does have a vague feelgood belief in God.
Comment by D.O.S on November 6, 2009 at 6:51pm
Hello, My wife is a life-long Catholic. She is not conservative. For the most part she see faith as very personal and therefore should be left up to each person. This has caused her some difficulties in her role as a youth minister. The higher ups are not always happy with her more liberal attitude. Even though we disagree on some obvious things are values are pretty much the same.
Comment by FeloniousD on November 7, 2009 at 12:04pm
I am truly shocked there are so few people in this group.
Comment by Shane Beasley on September 21, 2010 at 9:21pm
My wife and I were once both agnostic. A few years ago she found a church and became very active in it. I have become a full fledged atheist. It has been difficult for both of us especially when it comes to raising our two children. We decided to let them choose as they go.
Comment by GodMockingBitch on September 22, 2010 at 7:44am
I am not a christian anymore, and never will be again. My husband still is. we are very quiet on the subject since my deconversion because when I being it up it never ends well. He still claims to believe because thats what he was taught as a child. I became a christian and never believed everything in the bible. We are in a weird place in our marriage. I feel fourtunate to find a group I can talk to.
Comment by The Big Blue Frog on September 24, 2010 at 11:30am
My wife is a liberal Christian, and I've been an atheist since I was in college. Since she's not a fundamentalist, and she doesn't like to talk about religion anyway, it's not a problem for us. Her family is a problem, but only in that she's constantly apologizing for their fundamentalism. She's the daughter of a Southern Baptist minister, and she had already left the denomination before I met her. All of my in-laws are KJV Southern Baptists. She's actually discussed converting to Catholicism just to piss them off.
Comment by Shane Beasley on September 24, 2010 at 6:54pm
A while back someone at my wife's church asked my then 6 year old daughter why I didn't ever come to service. She told them and they promptly told her that I was going to hell. It destroyed her and She went crying to her mom. From all accounts, my wife tore the person a new one in front of all. She constantly defends me there. And I love her for it. I wonder if terrifying a little girl made them feel more "Christian".
Comment by GodMockingBitch on September 27, 2010 at 8:07am
My husband is trying to figure out how it is possible to become a non believer. We had a talk the other day and I went really well. I told him that we could respect each other and treat each other right no matter what we believe or don't believe.I am not forcing my views on him and I told him not to force his god on me, besides I know enough about his god and I don't want any part in fairy tales. He should think about finding out about reality.
Comment by The Big Blue Frog on September 29, 2010 at 12:12pm
Shane, I'm sorry to hear that happened to your daughter. She got a crash course in Christian bigotry. I go to church with my wife, when she goes. People just assume I'm a Christian unless I set them straight. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't. If I just want to cause problems in Sunday School, I just let them think I'm an unusually well-read Christian.

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Posted by Larry Taylor on May 20, 2013 at 8:15pm 5 Comments

OK. I am venting. My mother died two weeks ago. She was a “god fearing christian.” Before her death she refused all medical treatment. She wanted to be left alone. She even refused to speak with my brother who is a methodist minister. He is a pip, let me tell you! I suspect she did not believe, but a woman born in her time could not and did not state her actual beliefs. This is the opening salvo to all christians; FUCK YOU! I had so many people come and tell…

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Unbelievable!!!!!!!!

Posted by Christy Stewart on May 20, 2013 at 2:17pm 6 Comments

This probably should not have shocked me as much as it did (especially since I am in Texas). I actually thought my coworkers were playing a joke on me because they know I am an atheist. Sadly, this was no joke. This actually happened.

I work in a psychiatric hospital. The doctors who admit patients are general MDs. (Psychiatrists see patients after admission) Yesterday evening we received several calls from irate parents. A new doctor who was doing admissions yesterday actually…

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anti-atheist rant from an Orthodox Mormon part 2

Posted by Debra Stevenson on May 20, 2013 at 1:09pm 3 Comments

What do you think of this,

 

Nathan Young,

 

No Jason Torpy it is you that should be banned for promoting atheism, a belief that has no foundation in reality and zero proof behind it.  The letter was a mockery of your atheist beliefs.  I request to the board here that they remove Jason for his unverifiable beliefs in atheism for which he has no proof other than his arrogance.  The letter was a mockery of atheism.  Atheism is stupid and it should be mocked and it…

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