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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Steph S. on August 30, 2012 at 12:18pm

I love the lovely picture and Einstein quote Tony!

Have a great day everyone!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 30, 2012 at 11:19am

Wow!!!!  I just got done watching the elephant video.  Thanks for sharing, Patricia.  That is one of the most fascinating videos I've ever seen.  It ranks right up there with the wonders and awe of the 'Cosmos' series.  I would SO frame that artwork and proudly display it in my living room.  That was beautiful to watch.   

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 30, 2012 at 7:34am

What I like best about lilacs is the wonderful scent.  Hoping I can get a place where I'll have room to grow them.

Comment by Tony Carroll on August 30, 2012 at 6:09am

Heading off the work, just wanted to leave you with this thought from Einstein.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 30, 2012 at 1:05am

Lilacs! Lovely. Lots of them round here, which is a joy.

Morning Cheerfulness? I'm full of it. I work nights so I can gloat over the day-shift trying to prise their eyes open at 7 a.m. while I'm ready to go home and go to bed. (After my daily visit here, of course).

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 29, 2012 at 11:34pm

What an amazing video, Patricia. It certainly looks like self awareness to me. Thanks for sharing.

Comment by Steph S. on August 29, 2012 at 10:43pm

Comment by sk8eycat on August 29, 2012 at 10:37pm

Steph, I ignore the haters to their faces, but I think we should keep an eye on them...just because some day we're going to have to undo the damage they've done.  Prevention would be better.

I don't find the Crime Blotter quite so frightening because those people have been caught and punished.  I do find it appalling that many states don't give severe enough sentences to child rapists (IMO "child abuse" is too mild a euphemism for the lifelong pain they cause.  If I made the laws, pedophiles would be locked up for life.  I've never heard of a single one who was "cured.")

I do get a giggle out of church employees, especially the occasional nun, who embezzle large amounts of money from organizations that run the oldest scam in the world.  I hope they had fun with the loot before they were caught.  Either that, or used it to feed, clothe, and/or house the truly needy.  The Cr*p-Lick Crutch has more than enough already.

Comment by Steph S. on August 29, 2012 at 9:07pm

Right sk8eycat when you read the hate mail from the xtians in the "Freethought Today" newsletter you see their hatred! It is just sick!

I also am appalled by the "Crime Blotter" section that lists all the priests and ministers who are charged and convicted of crimes.

Comment by Steph S. on August 29, 2012 at 9:05pm

Wow Patricia! I love your flowers! Beautiful! You must have a really lovely garden. I also love the cute dog (who is not a morning person) and the unicorn picture. Very cool! I'm trying to get caught up here.

sk8eycat I love that you said this:

"Any amount of hate is incomprehensible to me; I can't even hate the haters.  For one thing it takes way too much energy.  I would much rather just ignore them, but they hurt people...animals, and the environment." Just ignore the haters! Good advise!

 

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