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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Steph S. on December 16, 2014 at 7:24pm

Carl, so sorry to hear the news of your stroke. I hope the medications help you get better soon.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 16, 2014 at 6:46pm

Carl, I am so very sorry to learn of your stroke, mild or otherwise. Will this delay your transplant? 

Comment by Patricia on December 16, 2014 at 1:50pm

Well that's crappy Carl, but meds should do the job.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 16, 2014 at 1:35pm

Sorry to hear that, Carl. You've got enough on your plate already. My sister-in-law recently had what the hospital called a "mini stroke" which was quite a fright but she was told that it was unlikely to happen again so I hope you're in the same position.

A great lesson plan, Chris. I can imagine it was very popular.

Today I had my first try at driving a car. NOT a success. I think someone kept changing the pedals round and someone had left some bloody silly plastic cones on the track and I couldn't avoid hitting them.

Comment by Plinius on December 16, 2014 at 1:31pm

Carl, no! As if you had nothing to worry about! Sending good vibes your way...

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 16, 2014 at 12:04pm
Hello, friends. Just checking in and adding to all the medical news here. I have a bit of bad news. I had a very mild stroke on Sunday. I'm feeling well and having lots of tests done. The good news is the stroke was very small and no crippling damage. I also do not appear to have any coronary disease. Medications should be able to control this from happening again. Cheers and happy thoughts to all of you.
Comment by sk8eycat on December 16, 2014 at 8:48am

Oh. Brav-O, Chris!  I love that song, too.

Comment by Plinius on December 16, 2014 at 5:57am

Thanks for posting Kraftwerk! It's been a long time since I heard Autobahn, I enjoyed it very much!

I hope your husband can live with a different medicine regime, Patricia! It's often such a delicate balance!

I'm doing the last lessons of 2014, two this morning. They expected me to do something xmaslike, but instead I gave them a text on our neolithic ancestors' winter solstice, followed by The Beatles' Here comes the Sun. They loved it, even the xtians! 

Comment by Patricia on December 16, 2014 at 12:54am

My husband's bp is already kept very low, but the Carvedilol is supposed to make his heart work less hard to allow it to strengthen up. The med has been working well now for about 4 years, but the dosage had to be drastically lowered due to side effects. Now that he's been on it for some time, maybe an increase is needed. He has to take it with food so takes it at breakfast & dinner.

Comment by sk8eycat on December 16, 2014 at 12:40am

Patricia: I was a guinea pig in a BP study starting 20 years ago.  It was a form of double-blind study, the only difference was that they were testing 3 different med, and nobody got placebos.  We just didn't know which drugs we were given until it was over.  Happened I was on Ateolol and chlorthalidone, and it worked for me. I'm still taking both of them, and my BP has been low to normal for 20 years now.  Before I started the tests it was dangerously high, and I am terrified of having a stroke and surviving it....my dad and his mother both had horrendous strokes....and I don't want to be that helpless, or a vegetable for months before I die.

My "new" MD suggested that I cut the pills in half, and take a half every 12 hours.  That regimen seems to be working better than ever, my pulse is slower, and my BP is usually 110 (or less) over 60.  Haven't checked my glucose lately....I have a meter, but I havte this new one...the strips are in a circular insert...like contraceptives used to be...but the damn things are expensive! 

DON'T EVER GET A BAYER METER!!!  Not even if it's "free."  They aren't selling meters, they are selling the strips....like Kodak and Polaroid were in the business of selling film, not cameras..

 

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