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Comment by Ian Mason on February 5, 2013 at 2:16pm

Happy birthday Patricia.

It does seem a bit late, the apology and the contact. Intimations of mortality? What you do is up to you,of course.

My brother and me resumed contact with our mother after a hiatus of 20 years, hoping for some explanations of what happened leading up to/around the divorce from our father. That didn't happen but we've stayed in touch out of a sense of duty. It hasn't been easy but we've felt compelled to "do the decent thing". If that's right or wrong I couldn't say.

Your view that there can only be an aquaintanceship between you sounds sensible. Distant and polite/amiable could be the best solution. Just mull things over and find out what is best for you.

Comment by booklover on February 5, 2013 at 1:33pm

Happy Belated Birthday Patricia!  All I can say is to do what feels right to you.  You have no obligation to let her off the hook if you don't want to.  My Grandma was horrible to my Mother her whole life.  My Mom felt nothing when she died.  It was actually a relief to all of us.  What a legacy to leave.  If you decide you don't want anything to do with her, that does not make you a jerk! It's all up to you!  We're here to listen if you need to talk more about it!~ Melinda

Comment by Patricia on February 5, 2013 at 1:24pm

Thought I'd run this by you guys.......My 66th birthday was last Tuesday & I got rather a shock.

I got a card with an apology for her mistakes & a request for forgiveness from mother after over 7 years of dead silence.

I didn't know how to react as I don't feel much of anything anymore. Too little, too late comes to mind, after all the cold, unloving years I grew up with.

The relationship was never good but we managed to get along until I told her off for dumping me over some grudge father (died a couple of years ago,) had against my husband. That was kind of the final straw.

I sent her a note of thanks, & telling her to feel free to write or email if she has a computer, but I don't think a relationship of anything more than acquaintanceship can be developed.

I realized a long time ago that I don't love her, & I don't even like this woman, but I also don't want to be a jerk as they were. I live in BC, & she lives in California so it's not like ''bosom buddies'' is in the cards......which would never occur anyway. Warm & fuzzy is not me, & most definitely not her. 

Comment by booklover on February 5, 2013 at 9:25am

Comment by booklover on February 5, 2013 at 9:24am

That is great Ian!  Have a fun time! :)

Comment by Ian Mason on February 5, 2013 at 12:32am

Thanks, Joan. I'm sure she's turned out pretty much all right - despite being a conservative in economic politics - and will make good choices in life. We're going out to lunch and to see "Tosca" on Saturday and I'm looking forward to that.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 4, 2013 at 11:43pm
Ian Mason, this is a good place to vent and release tension that builds up with all challenges one faces in life; and you have been challenged.
Learning of your daughter's conversations with you is a very good sign of her growing up. All the developmental phases present stress, but that going from "silent-adolescent" to sharing adult takes time and patience. She showed good judgment not staying with a drinking-sports-obsessed fellow. Finding a new friend at work gives hope he is steady. Having an English dad may create some opportunity for conversations. I know what you mean about our children finding ones that are "good enough." I guess the only thing a good parent can do is remain steady, especially when their lives get a little choppy. Being a good solid anchor for her to be able to trust and rely on frees you up to work at that ... we can't change others who may be unsteady; we can be a solid rock and everyone benefits.
Comment by sk8eycat on February 4, 2013 at 4:27pm

Tony, I am SO out of it that it's taken me this long to finally get the joke..."and I was like OMG!"  I effing LOVE it!  Thank you for the delayed LOL.

Everybody...think we should ALL sing "Here Comes the Sun" as a Solstice carol? 

Pass it along, maybe we can start something.

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 4, 2013 at 3:07pm

Felaine, thanks for Here Comes the Sun song.  Like Melinda, it brought tears to my eyes.

Comment by Patricia on February 4, 2013 at 1:13pm

Love those flash mobs.......more....more.....more!!!!

Almost everything is 'smarter' than humans!!!! 

 

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