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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 22. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 6:50pm

Hi, Steph.  Are you attending any of the American Atheist events in Austin this weekend?  You're lucky to have their conference in you city. 

Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 6:48pm
Oh cool - Melinda I love Star Trek and I love the Vulcan death grip picture! Awesome!
Comment by Steph S. on March 25, 2013 at 6:47pm
Wow - snow Melinda and in spring time too. It's chilly here - got to freezing temperatures last night - but no snow.
I love that dog and cat photo Melinda! Flying Atheist thanks for the music. I can't wait until it warms up and I can go and do things outside. I love to hike and be in nature. So how is everyone?
Comment by booklover on March 25, 2013 at 5:41pm

Comment by booklover on March 25, 2013 at 5:40pm

You're awesome Carl!  Thanks!! I will listen tonight! I drink coffee with cats each morning too. (They don't drink it though, LOL.)

Thanks for the book recommendations Ian!

I love that song Joan, only Louis Armstrong can sing it in my opinion!

I have felt really cruddy all day.  I go to Madison to see my Gastroenterologist tomorrow.  I feel like I'm just going to be going on and on to him about how I hardly ever feel GOOD.  He is doing all he can, and is an awesome doctor.  I also like him because he is a Democratic and a union supporter, lol.  It had better not snow again! 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 5:36pm

Patrica, since I don't have any cats, I would LOVE to visit a coffee shop filled with cats.  What fun! 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 4:46pm

Thanks for the book recommendations, Ian.  Sounds like some very interesting and varied topics.  I haven't read The Scarlet Letter since I was probably 15 years old.  I should really reread it. 

I purchased eight books on-line that just arrived a few days ago.  I have a LOT of reading ahead of me.

Stephen Greenblatt:  "The Swerve.  How the World Became Modern".

Susan Jocoby:  "The Great Agnostic.  Robert Ingersoll and American Freethought".

Bart Ehrman:  "Lost Christianities.  The Battles for Scripture and the Faiths We Never Knew". 

Oliver Sacks:  "Hallucinations".

Guy P. Harrison:  "Race and Reality.  What Everyone Should Know About Our Biological Diversity".

Adam Hochschild:  "King Leopold's Ghost.  A Story Of Greed, Terror, and Heroism In Colonial Africa".  (Recommended by Sentient Biped, one of our fellow A/N members.)

Steven Pinker:  "The Blank Slate.  The Modern Denial Of Human Nature".

Carol Tavris & Elliot Aronson:  "Mistakes Were Made (but not by me).  Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, And Hurtful Acts". 

Comment by Ian Mason on March 25, 2013 at 4:14pm

Longing for Spring, I am. I love running on forest paths when the first green buds are bursting and the anemones are flowering.

However, Winter has caused an attack of reading. I can recommend:

Carsten Jensen: "We, the drowned", the story of a maritime town in Denmark from mid-1800s to mid 1900s. War, peace, the transition from sail to steam etc. and their effects on everyday life. Written by a journalist, the language is uncomplicated (except for a some nautical terminology) but very moving.

Phillip Pullman: "The Good Man Jesus and the Scoundrel Christ". One of a series where established authors are commissioned to re-tell various myths. Pullman describes his book as being about "how a story becomes a story", the distorting jump from a few simple events to a told account of them that spreads and spreads.

An oldie, Nathaniel Hawthorne, "The Scarlet Letter". Love and lust, religion and revenge among the Puritans.

Now reading "Gangland", the story of the London criminal underworld from 1880 to 1990. The "Good Old Days" weren't really that good and there were always places where it wasn't safe to walk the streets at night.

Also listening to a little Bach before bedtime. This is a very good thing that I can also recommend.

See you tomorrow, one and all. Sleep well and sweet deams.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 25, 2013 at 2:44pm

This has been an especially fine morning hanging with friends, and I have to get to some chores. I look forward to having a conversation with you later this afternoon. This is a beautiful day, sunny, cold and a 27 degree F low last night. My ground continues to be too chilly for gardening.
it's a wonderful world - Louis Armstrong 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 25, 2013 at 2:19pm

"A café in Budapest offers customers the chance to relax and play with cats while sipping their coffee or tea. The owner says she thinks it helps take the stress out of a typical day and creates a more homey atmosphere."

Reuters news video

 

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