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I took a brief hiatus from here, and decided to come back. I've missed you guys, and hope you are all doing well. Hard to believe that fall is around the cornerThere's not much of a fall where I live. Having said that, I love Halloween. I don't…Continue

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I put my trust in my cancer fighting teams

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 16 Replies

So, something made you ill,then God waited until many people petitioned him,then made you well again.Something makes people around the world illthen no amount of people petitioning Godmakes them well again.Cancer made me ill,I want no one to…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 22, 2013 at 5:34pm

Joan, the Edward Current video, "What If God Disappeared?" is parody, poe, sarcasm, comedy, etc.  Mr. Current is a semi-well known YouTube video maker who mocks religion in a very dry and sarcastic tone while playing the character of a chrstian.  What can I say?  You've been duped. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2013 at 5:00pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2013 at 4:48pm

"No great idea in its beginning can ever be within the law. How can it be within the law? The law is stationary. The law is fixed. The law is a chariot wheel which binds us all regardless of conditions or place or time."

Emma Goldman 
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/e/emma_goldman.html#9Ctqz...

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2013 at 4:43pm

"What you need is sustained outrage...there's far too much unthinking respect given to authority."

~ Molly Ivins, 1944-2007

Comment by Ian Mason on January 22, 2013 at 3:11pm

Well said, Joan. Spot on. "A hit. A very palpable hit."

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2013 at 3:11pm

OK, it is confession time. I did not watch the inaugural speech of President Obama because he always says exactly the correct words that I want to hear, except he has avoided climate change and getting off fossil fuels far too long. 

The day of his first inaugural, he named his cabinet, all Wall Streeters. 

Just last month he named another Wall Streeter to replace Geithner. If he were going to change his philosophy, he would have named someone who included the needs of the working class as his advisors. 

I will watch closely what he does. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2013 at 2:59pm

Grinning Cat"What if God Disappeared?" by Edward Current.) My response:

Oh my goodness, Mr. Current, you have got to be writing sarcasm. “What if god disappears?” is about as foolish a statement as I have read. You are silly! Ludicrous!

 

“What would the world be like if god disappeared?”

Earth would remain the stunningly beautiful planet where life evolved from a single cell into the planet with water and flora and fauna and incredibly rich resources that brings us all we need to be healthy. We don’t have to invent the air, fire, water, and soil in order to survive; it is all here to use and to care for.

 

“If god disappeared we would instantly feel a huge void in our hearts.”

Perhaps you would, however there are legions of people who see no evidence of god in our experiences and certainly, your testimony provides evidence of shallowness of faith in a non-existent being. To have to create a god to feel “filled” reveals self-disrespect.

 

“We would feel empty, hopeless, desperate, like atheists feel today.”

Oh, my dear fellow, atheists feel exactly the opposite of what you describe. Your judgment and condemnation says more about you than it does about any atheist I know.

 

“If god disappeared missionaries in Africa and New Orleans would have no reason to help victims of malaria, AIDS and Hurricane Katrina.”

What about the missionaries in Africa who enabled the plunder of people and resources of those fine people; or who used the cruelest methods possible to cause submission of a proud people? Make them poor and then send missionaries to give them a spoon full of gruel and brag about it to the world. Do you brag about cutting off arms and legs of children and women whose men did not bring in enough rubber, or coal, or gold, or diamonds?

What about the exploitation of blacks by whites, creating a slave class and then maintaining a poverty class based on race. Are you proud of that history?

 

“The missionaries couldn’t benefit in the afterlife if they couldn’t do their work.”
Excuse me! Whites created the poverty of blacks by owning them as slaves and then keeping them down with fictional tales read from Bronze Age writings that condone slavery, plunder, rape, and murder because it pleases their god. Create poverty and then blame the victim for being poor. How foolish can one person be?

 

“If god disappeared there would be no reason to pray.”

Well, at least you have that correct. If there were no god, there would be no one to hear your prayers, no one to rescue you or reward you or punish you, and you would have to take responsibility for your own actions and have no redeemer to rescue you at the last minute before you die. Just imagine, you would be in heaven with other liars, thieves, rapists and murderers who were forgiven at the last breath. That is too easy!

 

“Success and failure in life would depend only on hard work and luck.”

I beg your pardon; are you telling me that the only people who succeed are those who believe in and have faith in an idea born of the Stone Age. We did not leave the Stone Age because we ran out of stones, we learned how to make and use tools and those made it possible to increase productivity and develop treatment for illness and injury. Your god is too small.

 

I have gone only 1:09 minutes into your foolishness and you can begin to see that I do not agree with you and I will not remain silent in the face of your ignorance, foolishness, or corruption.

 

Joan Denoo, 2013-01-22

Comment by Chris Dodds on January 22, 2013 at 2:29pm

It feels like in order to get Obama to listen to anyone at all, they have to actually barge into the Oval Office and shout at him.  I'm just wndering if I can secede from America all by myself.

Comment by Chris Dodds on January 22, 2013 at 2:26pm

I hear you guys.  You could start another petition to try and get the white house to recognize us as citizens, but we've tried thatit didn't get the required number of signatures.  And even if it did Obama wouldn't pay any attention to it.  That whole "We the people" petition thing on the White House just gives the illusion that the President is listening to us.  Every time enough petitions on that site garner the required number of signatures, the white house ignores those petitions and raises the required number.

Comment by Alan Michael Wilt on January 22, 2013 at 1:45pm

I'm always of two minds when it comes to politicians, particularly those on the left, and god-talk. I think that if President Obama had left out, or even minimized, mentions of god, that would have been all anyone would talk about regarding the speech. And I'd rather the substance of the speech get the attention it deserves. At the same time, I thought he overdid it by a hair or two in this inaugural.

Worse, though, and by a lot, was the closing benediction. I don't know anything about the minister who gave it, but even if he's the most lefty of lefties his rhetoric was all about without god we can't even recognize our own goodness, dignity, worthy neighbors, etc. Hearing that just flat burned my toast. I couldn't turn the damn TV off fast enough.

 

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