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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Lillie on March 6, 2013 at 10:06pm

Happy Birthday, Shauna.  Beautiful girl.  Beautiful name.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 6, 2013 at 10:01pm

Thank you all for your kind posts and suggestions.  I'm using cold packs right now to keep the swelling down, and they also relieve the pain a bit.  I was told not to eat or drink anything warm or hot (like tea) for 24 hours, but I can have frozen yogurt and or ICE CREAM!  YAYYYY!

I just don't understand why the anaesthetic didn't work at all.  It never did make any part of my mouth or face very numb...I'm thinking of Bill Cosby's old routine about trying to talk after having a shot of the stuff. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIq4OkCT_a8 (starting at about 2:22)  I used to get like that, but not today.

Yes, Ruth, the tooth was broken and disgustingly infected.  Does that cancel the pain-killer?  If I ever need to have that done again, I think I'll go to an oral surgeon and have pentothal!

Oh, well.  It's over.  I'll shut up about it.

Patricia, a friend of mine is in a similar situation, only she's the (atheist) mother, and it's her daughter who has been/is so hateful...  actually, abusive.  It's taken her several years to bring herself to break off communication because there's a little grandson that she's never met.  She's seen a few photos taken when he was a newborn, and that was it.

I don't know what the daughter's problem is, maybe she thinks atheism is contagious, and she's afraid her son will catch it, or what.

But, you do have company, if that's any comfort.

Comment by Nerdlass on March 6, 2013 at 9:15pm

What did he die of, might I ask?

50 is too young. That's how old my dad was when he died from a massive heart attack. :(

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 7:48pm

Here is spritely bit of sunshine with a great attitude, especially in this era. Wearing Nothing New: Jessi Arrington

It looks like she has fun and so do her companions. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 6, 2013 at 6:32pm

Sk8eycat, you're not a redhead, so maybe it's another reason such as a tooth infection. Your experience is uber scary. Thanks for the billboard link. It's good to see us getting a message out.

I never liked Laurel and Hardy or the Three Stooges for the same reason, Joan, excepting for the "Who's on first" routine which was relatively nonviolent. I was glad when NCIS toned down the head slapping. The early shows were disturbingly violent in that regard.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 6:18pm

Melinda, I like your photo very much; so pretty, sprightly, and fresh. I like seeing your whole face, even as your eyes are stunningly blue. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 6:16pm

Felaine, I am very sorry to learn the pain you experienced with that extraction! I have not a clue what will make it feel better; I trust Melinda. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 6:10pm
Celebrating Rhoda: Her Best TV Moments
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20679533,00.html
Comment by sk8eycat on March 6, 2013 at 5:11pm

Intermission: Good article, GREAT billboards>

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2013/03/03/american-at...

 

(BAD Felaine!  Does anyone in here know if it's possible to develop a resistance to novocaine, or whatever it is that dentists use?  I had a tooth extracted today and felt everything even though she kept injecting more and more whatever-it-was... I cried and cried and cried.  First time in my life I've ever done that, and I've had a LOT of dental work in the past 60+ years.  Oh, Dawg, it HURTS! )

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 4:56pm

Patricia, I read so much pain, or frustration in your post and when family has "sides" or "issues" it is really hard. My daughter hated me for years and it hurt. Thankfully, those days are gone. I hope you are able to discuss how you feel with your daughter, honestly and in non-blaming ways, just speak your truth. It may or may not make things better between the two of you, but what have you got to lose?

 

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