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blu (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 5 Replies

After what has seemed like a very long hiatus, TheraminTrees is BACK.  No great surprise, not only hasn't he lost a step, he may actually have gained a few!  That said, may I present:bluContinue

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Don't leave your keys on your desk: company copies keys from photos for $6

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"Keys Duplicated" will make a copy of your house key from smartphone photos, for anyone with a credit card.…Continue

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by sk8eycat Sep 22. 64 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Ebola Drug From BC

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Ebola Researcher from BC

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Ozone Recovering?

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 8:37pm

sk8eycat, you send very good news! Thankfully, fear of a cat fight unsettled him, and would unsettle me to. Yes, we lose country space to urban and suburban development. It grew so fast; where orchards and strawberry patches and little farms existed have become homes and pavement. It surely has to stop at some point. We built on all the excellent farmland and the remaining land is either rocky mountains or desertified land. 

I like your suggestion, Patricia, about SPCA. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 22, 2013 at 8:34pm

Joan, getting a feel for memetics has a lot to do with giving up the idea we're in complete control. We tend to think we create words, poems, ideas, songs, and inventions. While that's true in on sense, there's another sense in which words, poems, ideas, songs and inventions that we've learned from one another also created us - in evolutionary terms.

Comment by Patricia on March 22, 2013 at 7:06pm

Sk8ey, I don't know about there, but here the SPCA will sometimes help out with a difficult situation.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 22, 2013 at 3:25pm

Joan, Jerry is behaving normally today...woke me up, demanded to be fed, and then took an extended nap in a patch of sunshine (which has moved on, but he's still asleep in the same spot).  I guess all the crouching, and sticking closer than usual to me last night was due to a loud and long cat fight outside.  Both cats were acting spooky long after the outdoor toms took their disagreement elsewhere.

S'peculiar, we haven't been bothered by outdoor cats in years...due to the influx of coyotes, I'm afraid.  We're about a mile from where the real hills begin, but developers keep building higher and higher up there, and totally destroying not only coyote habitat, but that of their normal prey. 

THEN the idiots who buy those tacky McMansions in the hills complain when their pets are killed by predators.  (There are pumas and bobcats up there, too.)

This used to be a nice little town...

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 22, 2013 at 2:57pm

Sk8ey, I wish I were within driving distance to help!

The discussion of un/clear writing reminds me of the quote attributed to Albert Einstein: "Things should be made as simple as possible, but no simpler."

My pet peeve among manipulative commercial euphemisms is real estate agents buying and selling "homes". A home is someplace you actually live, that you've settled into, that's emotionally yours. (And, for some of us, that you share with a furry friend or two!) An empty place is a house (or a townhouse or condo).

And Booklover, you're right: why can't I walk into a Target and help myself to a meal, if I'm a "guest" there?

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 2:46pm

Whining is OK  sk8eycat, it is the necessary first step in problem solving. It becomes dysfunctional when that is all one does about a problem. Sometimes whining is the only thing one can do, just don't expect it to change anything. 

I am sorry to learn Hairy Jerry is not springing back to normal activity. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 22, 2013 at 2:40pm

TFA: When I worked for JCPenney Advertising in the early 1980s, I was a "Research Associate." Glorified file clerk; we dug up information, photos, and mdse samples for photography for the Copy and Art departments.  Bottom of the totem pole, with no chance for advancement.  We did get stock shares after being there a year or two...and group medical insurance was $7.80 a month in those days...before HMOs.  It was actually a pretty good company to work for, except when the New York brass came to LA to check on us, and the buyers in another section of the building...the usual boring "meeting," which was nothing but a pep talk. I had the impression from their attitude that they thought we weren't to be trusted with sharp objects.

About Jerry...I haven't been able to get him to the vet yet...I ned to draw $$$ out of a CD first, and that has to be done in person, which means taking taxis since I quit driving more than a year ago.  The whole thing freaks me out so much that I can't sleep, pull myself together, and get it all done. Anything to do with money freaks me out. Makes me afraid to leave the house; I just want to crawl into a hole, and pull it in after me. 

I really need somebody to drag me out of here and drive me to two different banks, and then the vet.  All my friends that I could have called on for help have retired and moved out of the state. Southern California is just too expensive for retirees..unless they're filthy rich. (Can't sell the house now because we have a tiny reverse mortgage on it...wish we'd done it five or six years ago, but my sister would never stand for it, and she's co-owner according to mother's trust deed.)

Oh, no!  I'm whining again.  sorry.  I need to straighten up my act.  FAST!

Joan, I don't think my occasional "sk8eycaticisms" would fill even a small pamphlet, but thank you.  (Years and years ago, before email, I was exchanging notes with Marion Zimmer Bradley about a possible silly short story concerning an ice show that gets stranded on her fictional planet, Darkover.  Sort of a "coals to Newcastle" plot [on Darkover it only snows at night... in the summer].  Of course it was unpublishable, but she enjoyed communicating with her fans, and encouraged us to play in her "yard.")

Comment by booklover on March 22, 2013 at 2:34pm
Yes, how is Hairy Jerry? Now I'm worried about my Lula. She didn't sleep by me like she usually does, then didn't come up for morning treats!
Comment by booklover on March 22, 2013 at 2:31pm
Carl, notice how in many stores customers are called guests? Well I don't expect my guests to pay for anything! Lol
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 22, 2013 at 1:39pm
Spud, your curmudgeonliness works for me.
 

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