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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:49pm

We had our big Yule log fire tonight, even though it wasn't in the middle of the cleared ground. The ground was too wet and muddy, no snow and no promise of snow. So, Larry built it in a fire pit on the back concrete patio. As luck would have it, snow began to fall this morning, by dark, about 4:00 PM the snow was getting deeper and by 8:00 there was enough snow for snowmobiles. There was a stream of red-cheeked faces coming in for hot apple cider while the second group went out. They kept coming and going, withstanding the cold and going out again before their gloves were dry. Very cold fingers, very red cheeks, and large smiles on all the faces of young and old. I did not go out. I stayed in the warmth of the house and kitchen. 

We had about 25 for dinner; I lost count. Larry made Buffalo Hot Wings, and everything else was potluck. This group of people have highly skilled cooks ... perfect potato salad, remarkable rice casserole,  fabulous finger foods, Yummy Yule Log cake. And of course, the wieners and marshmallows over the outside fire. 

My six great-grandchildren from 16 years to 5 months all have healthy appetites and the older ones love winter sports. Family and friends filled out the attendees. Our family consists of two blended families and we all like each other. For those who are no longer part of the family, good riddance. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:31pm

Carl, I am grateful for the final frame, showing the cat's hind legs. I couldn't imagine how tortured it would be to have to walk two legged. After realizing that it was walking on all fours, I enjoyed the video.  I agree, Felaine, the cat looked as though it had enough of such monkey business. 

Grinning Cat, I just realized how much I enjoy a man made up to look like a cat. 

Loren, an air-conditioned hell sounds about right. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:24pm

Chris, I am happy to learn of your nice xmasparty. "instant family without the bickering" makes for a happy time for all. 

Comment by sk8eycat on December 27, 2014 at 9:56pm

If there are some refrigeration engineers, they probably have good skating rinks, too.

Comment by Loren Miller on December 27, 2014 at 8:08pm

Comment by sk8eycat on December 27, 2014 at 3:58pm

I wonder how scratched-up the human was after getting that outfit on the cat.  The very end of that gif looks like the kitteh is trying to say, "Get me OUTTA this, pweeze!"

Comment by Patricia on December 27, 2014 at 2:44pm

Santuh Klawz!!!!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 27, 2014 at 2:39pm

Comment by k.h. ky on December 27, 2014 at 10:44am
It was an excuse. But using one from a xmas tree would have been better. Glad you're well.
Comment by Idaho Spud on December 27, 2014 at 10:00am

Mindy, I'm pleased to hear of your enjoyable company also.

 

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