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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat yesterday. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Patricia yesterday. 4 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Tuesday. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 21. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 20. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on October 4, 2014 at 2:36pm

As well as musical instruments.

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 4, 2014 at 2:35pm

On the first few songs that I recognize, that guy is excellent at imitating other singers.

Comment by booklover on October 3, 2014 at 4:32pm
That sounds lovely, Joan. Herbs that you grew to make your meals tasty must be very satisfying!
My mom, my son, and I went to visit my daughter today. Went out for lunch, and then bought nooks at Barnes & Noble. Now I'm home in my comfy chair with a cat asleep on my lap. :)
Comment by Joan Denoo on October 3, 2014 at 3:32pm

Harvest time continues; there will be basil, thyme, sage, garlic and onions to harvest. My house will be a mess with all that drying laying around. I don’t have a drying machine, I prefer washing and then laying herbs on very clean white towels to dry. Then, I’ll put them in bottles that brought me my pills and capsules of medicine. 

I hope this day is one of joy and special people for each one of you and your pets, too. 

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 9:11am

Mindy, I'm just the same as you. Hug for you! I'm glad we're friends!

Comment by booklover on October 2, 2014 at 8:56am

Bertold, I have read the average age of outdoor cats is 4 years!  We never let our cats outside.

Chris, I think you're a such a loving, caring person.  I'm so glad we are friends. xo

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 8:48am

13 is old - comparable to 75 in people, but some veterans hang on till they're 100. But our cats always die too early. I hope Dale stays with you for a good time.

That story of the two adults - five years ago someone warned us that husband's aunt wasn't doing well; she had Alzheimer's, forgot to eat, and a so called friend was emptying her bank account. She lived 250 Km from here - a long trip by public transport. We got  permission from the court of justice to be her curators/guardians so we could act. Scared away the ´friend´ and moved Aunt to a carehome here. She still doesn't know where she is, but her health is back and she's happy to live among kind people who'll kiss and hug her whenever she wants a kiss. She not quite sure who I am but she loves me. We visit her often, bring her home to see the cats and we do the shopping and the organizing. And her happiness is a big reward!

I don't believe in fate or anything, and it isn't really easy, but it feels all right to do whatever comes your way. I couldn't look in the mirror if I didn't try to help.

This might be a longer answer than you wanted...

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 2, 2014 at 8:34am

I don't know if it's actually true, but I read somewhere once that the average life span of 14 years for cats is tweaked by the fact that so many cats die of non-natural causes like collisions with vehicles or predators. While 14 is the actual average, it's not at all unusual for a cat to live to 19 or 20.

Comment by booklover on October 2, 2014 at 8:15am

Chris, where did I miss that you now have 2 adults to take care of? That must be so stressful!  I was thinking you were going to get a break!  I'm sorry you have to have more on your plate.

They did an x-ray and ultrasound on Dale, and he didn't eat anything he wasn't supposed to.  They said he's just old.  Well our last cat lived to be 19 1/2, so I didn't think 13 1/2 was old.  The vet said 14 was the average age for cats to die. He just licks gravy off food and drinks water, but he seems happy.

That is a cool picture, Chris.  I know what you mean about not wanting to live in the brightest spot though.

Have a good Thursday, Friends. :)

Comment by Plinius on October 2, 2014 at 8:08am

I love them too Randall, but I still wish I didn't live in the brightest spot in the Netherlands...

 

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