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Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover 2 hours ago. 21 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Wednesday. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Finding Your Roots

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Chris G Dec 15. 9 Replies

I've been into genealogy for a long time. It's fun, especially with internet help, but increasingly frustrating. You see, I've hit "brick walls". And being a Smith doesn't make research any easier.Wouldn't you think I could find the death date and…Continue

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by sk8eycat Nov 26. 41 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

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Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 24. 4 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 22. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by booklover on April 21, 2013 at 5:10pm

Hi Everyone!  Just got back from a wonderful weekend at my daughters school with my mom and son.  We all (including her roommate) went shopping, out to dinner, and then to a show.  My Son stayed with my Daughter and her roommate at their apartment (it was siblings weekend), and my Mom and I stayed at a nearby hotel.  Very nice.  My daughter is feeling depressed, and I am hoping she can just hang-on the last 2 1/2 weeks of the semester, then come home and have the summer to get her meds right with the doctor, talk to her therapist, and then go back and finish her Senior year.  She had been thinking of not finishing, which I feel she will regret later in life.  I didn't finish, and I have always regretted it.  I don't feel like finishing now, but I wish I had done it when I was young.  She has her expenses paid for her now, and that is the easiest time to finish!  I really hope the doctor can help her.

Anyway, too much here to respond to everything... Joan, thanks for the lovely picture of Mother and Daughter, and for thinking of us.  Steph, you are as sweet as the pictures of cupcakes and kittens that you post.  You are a great friend.  Hugs to you too Ruth, and I love all of you!  Sorry to sound mushy, but I am mushy! lol :)~ Melinda

Comment by Tom Sarbeck on April 21, 2013 at 4:39pm

How did UG get added to the Pledge (which my pals, all of them veterans, know I don't and won't recite)?

The short, partly true story is that in 1954 some submissives (Nietzsche slave morality types) wanted to advertise their slave morality so no one would think they are commie atheists.

The longer story (to be documented soon in a book by a history prof) is that early in the 1930s Depression some business types feared that Americans would lose their faith in capitalism. They hired conservative preachers to plant connections in their followers' minds between capitalism and xianity. The campaign continued through the Depression, WW2 and into the early years of the Cold War. In 1954 Congress added UG to the Pledge.

I have the details on the book title and its author in a SF Chronicle story but to post it I'll have to find it in the stacks of paper on my desk.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 21, 2013 at 4:24pm

Do any of the people who say "god bless america" know the background story of conflict, oppression, domination, and exploitation of our nation? Do you have any idea why there is such hatred going both ways? Who are the hate-monger citizens of this country? Who are the hate-monger citizens of other countries? To claim america is #1 does not know our history or our reality. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 21, 2013 at 4:21pm

Patricia, thanks for the poster. For those who look into such things, 

Greg Graffin is correct, you know!

Comment by sk8eycat on April 21, 2013 at 3:44pm

I've been (again) scanning Yahoo "news" articles, and the comments following them, about the Boston Marathon bombing last week, and I can't express how sick I am of seeing GBA in capital letters over and over in the comments.  Does that mean their imaginary friend (who invented a place called Hell) should not bless any other country?  Or is it just whistling in the dark?  Or what?

I do know one thing for certain, too many Americans are sadly lacking in creative imagination. The link below isn't new, but there is the loud ring of truth in it (did I post it earlier?  I'm still suffering from Brain Fog)

www.upworthy.com/meet-the-horrifying-demon-that-has-crept-into-our-...

It also seems that undergodders are severely lacking in language, spelling, and typing skills.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 21, 2013 at 3:34pm

Ian, I SEE you!  ;>)

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 21, 2013 at 3:09pm

Here is a treasure from Terrance Meaden, 

"Has the face of the creator of Stonehenge been staring at us unrecognised for more than 4,000 years?

A British archaeologist claims to have seen a face carved into the side of one of the mighty stones at Stonehenge.

[ image: The face can be seen on the side of a standing stone]
The face can be seen on the side of a standing stone

It is the first face ever seen on the Neolithic monument and one of the oldest works of art ever found in Britain.

It was recognised by Terrence Meaden, an archaeologist with a fascination for the ancient standing stones of the British Isles.

"I just happened to be there at the right time of day because only when the light is right can you see it properly. During the summer months it is only obvious for about a hour each day around 1400."

~ Terrence Meaden 

Sci/Tech Stonehenge face mystery

"Several papers in this collection demonstrate how certain, well loved, traditional symbols and practices have a noted tenacity for surviving the ages of time. The concept of Earth Mother—or ‘Goddess’ or ‘Dea Madre’, using related definitions encountered in the Mediterranean lands—is associated with some sites and symbols for which we have knowledge through historical scholarship or anthropological interviews with current believers. For others, an Earth Mother attribution—as similarly with ideas of a Universal Ancestor—is for many prehistoric sites only a theoretical concept. This explains why the Earth Mother hypothesis has been put to the test by some of the researchers in this book. Indeed, a new era of rigorous testing has begun. Prof. Gheorghiu closes his timely essay by concluding: “the processes of anthropomorphization, as well as that of epiphany and hierogamy, which were specific for traditional societies, were not totally withdrawn by Modernity, and still could exist unrevealed within contemporary imageries”."

G. Terence Meaden, "Sanctuaries through the Ages: Rethinking symbols and images, art and artefacts from history and prehistory"

http://www.stonehenge-avebury.net/Meaden1.pdf

Comment by Ian Mason on April 21, 2013 at 2:22pm

Home at last from the nation's capital. Here's a pic of the "Human Banner" organised by Greenpeace. I'm near the point of the "M" at the top of the heart, bright blue jacket and bright red cap.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 21, 2013 at 1:00pm

The dolphin birth was interesting Patricia.  I was surprised that the baby could swim immediately, and amazed at how quickly the baby was able to swim by the mother's side.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 21, 2013 at 10:44am

Thanks for the dolphin birth, Patricia. Lovely way to start today.

Nice vacation flavor picture, Ian.

Yes, please do share a picture of your cat tea pot, sk8eycat. *sips tea*

Hugs to all

 

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