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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz on Thursday. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 23, 2013 at 5:10pm
Sounds like all you can do, Melinda. It is really too bad. Life can be so incredibly fine and it is not hard to do. Love oneself, love one's work, love family and community, love being able to think and solve problems and participate in living with people you love and who love you.
Well, that is kind of a big order. And all it takes is thinking and acting wisely and paying attention when dreams and nightmares try to alert one to some unsolved problem or conflict, or sometime illness is a body trying to get in touch with oneself, or recurring problems that don't seem to get fixed. These and other things are our wonderful bodies and minds calling attention to something that needs attention.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 23, 2013 at 3:32pm

Great find for you and Halloween TFA. That implies chocolate to me! Lots of it, every size, shape and texture. 

Ian, there is a Beckett directs Beckett - Endgame on the internet. I wonder if it is the same as what you saw? "the master is more a prisoner than the servant" sounds familiar. I'm  thinking about you; hope all goes well for your family and that you find strength and encouragement from each other. 

A lot of feelings expressed here today.

I do hope Lula is OK Melinda and recovers quickly. She is so pretty and must be good company. You have an incredibly sensitive ear and your friend certainly needs one now. Is she a good critical thinker? She may be putting others before her own health as many of us tend to do. Having alcohol and drugs in loved ones is a terrible burdon, especially for one so young. I hope she can find a way to get out. 

Steph, I like the style, swagger, haughtiness of James Bond Kittez. 

 

Comment by Ian Mason on March 23, 2013 at 3:18pm

That's a fun item, TFA.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 23, 2013 at 2:46pm

Ok.....so I was perusing eBay just the other day and stumbled upon this item that I just HAD to get as soon as I saw it.  After all, it's never too early to start thinking about Halloween.  I'm so proud of my purchase that I had to share it with you.  So cute.....

eBay link

Comment by Ian Mason on March 23, 2013 at 1:11pm

She's a pretty cat, Melinda. Hope she gets over her problems.

R.e. your friend's daughter: listening to her and taking her seriously is the best thing you can do. A good listener is a priceless treasure.

Just been to see Beckett's "Endgame". There's a lot of good laughs in the existential misery. Either that or it was the work of an imaginative director. I think the basic message was that the master is more a prisoner than the servant but there must be many other interpretations.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 23, 2013 at 9:41am

Melinda, I'm also hoping Lula is OK.

Comment by Steph S. on March 23, 2013 at 9:37am

Comment by Steph S. on March 23, 2013 at 9:34am

Nice to have you back here Ian. I give to many animal causes Patricia. I enjoy helping animals.

Booklover I hope your cat Lula is Ok. Maybe she is under the weather and just needs a checkup at the vet. MAybe the vet can give her something and get her going. I am thinking about you and I hope everything goes OK.

That is so nice of you to help out that friend of yours. It is so nice to have a friend there when you need one.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 23, 2013 at 9:20am

Ruth, does part of the Memetic Evolution set that is outside of US mean that other animals have memes also?

Comment by Plinius on March 23, 2013 at 3:01am

Nice that you're back, Ian! It's hard work, taking care of your elder family and making the care-homes and other instititions do what they should do.  

 

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