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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by sk8eycat on April 6, 2013 at 5:38pm

In '09, I wanted a video of my lumbar laminectomy and fusion, but Doc said it would be done with microscopic instruments, and he would be too busy to have a cameraman/woman in the OR, anyway.

I found out later that the procedure took FOUR HOURS!  I don't remember anything between being wheeled out of the prep room and waking up in my own room (utterly painless...I totally understand why/how some people become addicted), and the first thing I saw was the Catholic Scarecrow on the wall.  I asked to have it removed, but they refused, so as soon as I was on my feet (3 days later) I covered it with my FFRF "Imagine No Religion" T-shirt.  Doc (very young secular Jew) laughed so hard when he saw it that I thought he was going to literally ROTFL.

There are places on the net where you can see animated (bloodless) depictions of almost any type of surgery; you just have to hunt for them.

I'll be off the net...cat-sitting... when you have your surgery (April 14 to the 26th), so I'm wishing you the best of luck now, and I'll keep on thinking about you till I get back home and check in here.

Idaho: I've watched my own blood draws and injections since I was a teen; IMO it hurts less when I know what's going on. Of course I can't see an injection in my rear...

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 6, 2013 at 2:49pm

Joan, the expanded-cheeks chipmunk is cute. 

I think Matt D. dropping the pen is great, and I very much like your post that talked about rats beating humans.  

I’m glad you’re ready for surgery.  You may be braver than I am, in wanting to watch, but a few years ago, I started watching when my blood was drawn.  My curiosity finally overpowered my chickenness.  Also, when I had a colonoscopy, I wanted to watch, but I was unconcious until the last 10 minutes.  But I did get to see a watermelon seed in my large colon.  : )

A video is a great idea.  Next time I’ll ask if I can get one.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 12:50pm

I have great news, the cancer cure train is leaving the station and I have my surgery scheduled for April 16. I feel fine, I am ready and I wish I could watch the surgery. Maybe I could get someone to film the procedure. Well, that is a task upon which to work. 

IZ "What a Wonderful World"

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 11:55am

Well, if I walk through an isle of jock straps, I don't feel any differently than I suppose men feel when walking through bras. 

In other words, poor planning on the part of the store. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 11:52am

Oh, I read further and realize the questions concerned magic. 
NEVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, MAGIC!

Looking at the effect of natural selection, I feel full of wonder, sometimes with goose bumps.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 11:45am

If we are discussing selection, natural would be the correct adjective, not random. Correct me if I am wrong, please. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on April 5, 2013 at 11:38pm

Patricia, you asked about playing Scrabble together using computers with different operating systems.

BlueStacks has an "app player" that lets you run Android apps on a Windows computer. An inveterate online Scrabbler I know tried it successfully with Wordsmith, the Scrabble variant he plays frequently on his Android tablet. (There are others, including the "official" Electronic Arts Scrabble app, and Words With Friends. I don't have an Android device myself, and haven't gotten into those. I play online at www.isc.ro which supports Windows, Mac, and Linux; you have to download their app.)

BlueStacks is free for now, while it's in beta.

http://www.bluestacks.com/

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 5, 2013 at 11:17pm

Would this creep you out?

Comment by Loren Miller on April 5, 2013 at 10:26pm

"Random" implies that, given a value, one cannot reliably predict the following value.  Considering that even Brownian Motion and Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle describe what is thought to be "random" motion or behavior, the concept of "random" as some attempt to apply it to this reality is inappropriate.

There are still rules for everything ... and the answer is never ... never, Never, NEVER ... "magic."

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 5, 2013 at 10:17pm

Thanks, Joan and booklover.

Here's a picture I had to share.

 

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