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Eat vegetables, Be happy

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 3 hours ago. 8 Replies

An association between the amount of fruit and vegetables people ate and their happiness? Yes indeed. People who ate 7 portions of fruits and/or vegetables a day were the happiest.…Continue

Tags: vegetables, fruit, diet, happiness

Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud yesterday. 59 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Forest Fire

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change.org

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Jul 16. 6 Replies

There's a new petition taking off on Change.org, and we think you might be…Continue

Saving Number 90 - From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 1. 9 Replies

Seth says himself that the following is a departure from the usual fare his YouTube channel features.  Personally, I think it's a positive and constructive move, because it demonstrates that no, we are NOT just about atheism.  We're also very much…Continue

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Comment by Patricia on March 6, 2013 at 6:15pm

I've talked & discussed & had professional help over the years & nothing made me feel any better so I'm done. I don't have a problem with my daughter Joan, it's just I didn't want her put in the position between her grandmother & me. My daughter is brainwashed into religion which has to be a closed subject, but other than that, we get along fine. She just doesn't 'get' things anyway so I can't waste my time or breath on trying to make her understand things she can't, & as an atheist, I'm in secondary place anyway. As for good ol' mummy, nothing can mend things enough to get all warm & fuzzy. If she wants to make a light relationship with me, I'm willing, but I'm going no further.....I can't get into it anymore.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 6:10pm
Celebrating Rhoda: Her Best TV Moments
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20679533,00.html
Comment by booklover on March 6, 2013 at 6:02pm

Oh Felaine!  I'm so sorry you're in pain!  When I had my wisdom teeth extracted as an adult, the only thing that helped my pain were heat-packs on my face!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 6, 2013 at 5:11pm

Intermission: Good article, GREAT billboards>

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2013/03/03/american-at...

 

(BAD Felaine!  Does anyone in here know if it's possible to develop a resistance to novocaine, or whatever it is that dentists use?  I had a tooth extracted today and felt everything even though she kept injecting more and more whatever-it-was... I cried and cried and cried.  First time in my life I've ever done that, and I've had a LOT of dental work in the past 60+ years.  Oh, Dawg, it HURTS! )

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 4:56pm

Patricia, I read so much pain, or frustration in your post and when family has "sides" or "issues" it is really hard. My daughter hated me for years and it hurt. Thankfully, those days are gone. I hope you are able to discuss how you feel with your daughter, honestly and in non-blaming ways, just speak your truth. It may or may not make things better between the two of you, but what have you got to lose?

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 6, 2013 at 4:50pm
I understand what you mean, Ruth, I don't care for slapstick the way I once did, and how they milked for laughs. I didn't and don't like Laurel and Hardy or the Three Stooges ... too much laughing at pain. However, this sketch tickled my funny bone. I would love to see a set that make you laugh. Or anyone!
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 6, 2013 at 2:21pm

Wow, your daughter looks so much like you, booklover. Both beautiful too. I only started looking like my mother after I got old and a bit jowley.

Cute cat triumph moment, Steph.

I wasn't too impressed by the Carol Burnett elephant sketch and the blooper discussion, even though I used to watch her show sometimes. I think internet use has changed my taste in humor. I became impatient with the extended laughter and extended lead up discussion. These days I'm used to instant gratification, as with LOLs. That walk in humor history taught me how much I've changed.

Comment by Patricia on March 6, 2013 at 2:05pm

Thanks.....just the way it is.....any wonder we like to keep to ourselves?

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 6, 2013 at 1:31pm

Patricia, sorry about your moronic family.

Comment by Patricia on March 6, 2013 at 1:27pm

Update....

After receiving the birthday card in January with the apology from 'mother of the year', I sent a thank you note which was returned yesterday as undeliverable.

As there was no alternative, I therefore had to ask my daughter if her grandmother had moved.....answer....yes......out of California & back to Canada.....into my daughter's city.......a year ago! This from a girl who doesn't want to keep secrets!!!

I never wanted her caught between the issues I have with 'mother' in the first place, & it never seems to stop no matter how long it's been!

It was my daughter to tell me when good ol' dad had died, not mummy doing the calling, & it's not as if she was that broken up considering they didn't love each other anyway.

I guess they can now try to out-xian each other as 'mother' left a book of moron at my daughter's place several years ago, which she threw out, considering my son-in-law has the 'right' religion & morons are an evil cult....which the internet told him, so not first-hand knowledge. Oh well......... 

 

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