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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 22. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by booklover on June 22, 2013 at 10:31am

Comment by booklover on June 22, 2013 at 8:47am

Patricia, I have glasses with dark purple frames.  You have to really look at them to see they're purple.  They are plastic frames.  The side of the frames that face my face are blue.  Sounds wild, but they're not!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 21, 2013 at 10:50pm

Those are so much more sensible. I was being frivolous, Patricia.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 21, 2013 at 7:22pm

Chris, I'd never heard of this possibly constructive aspect of dementia. It sounds as if the environment is key.

Love the Lumbar-Ghini, Patricia! And your hat too. I agree with Joan on the whimsy. She has plenty too. Purple eyeglasses, I can't imagine.

Joan, I was enjoying the car song until "the engine blasts" knocked me off my chair (so to speak).

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2013 at 4:42pm

Patricia, what a lovely sight! You, your red hair and purple hat and  LUMBAR-GHINI What fun. You are whimsical! 
Is your  LUMBAR-GHINI street qualified ... it must be, you said you carry groceries in it. You are an inspiration for me. 

Your husband's electric scooter looks fun ... you have an actual parade when you take off together. 

Do you live in an area that gives you road room? And do you have to have a motor vehicle license tab? 

This is about as close I could find for singing about driving your Lumbar-Ghini

The Laurie Berkner Band - Drive My Car

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2013 at 12:05pm

Chris, what a nice thought about the benefits of Alzheimer's. I have not thought of that. Delighted to learn your aunt wanted to play at a fairy tale park and "she lost herself in wonder and delight". Your commitment to your aunt reveals your fine  quality of character. Good for you!

Grinning Cat, I give up. You offer a nice little piece of gristle to chew on when things get tiresome. Interesting about a headache helping solve puzzles. 

Thanks for all your positive thoughts. This week is far more pleasant than last week. The good news, there are good and bad days, so I do experience relief. That gives me time to renew and refresh. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 21, 2013 at 10:35am

To be fair with the word puzzles, readers of Hofstadter's book also knew that the Tortoise had a headache at the time he was given the puzzles -- yet instead of interfering, it actually helped him solve them!

Comment by booklover on June 21, 2013 at 9:30am

Thanks Ian. :) 

Ruth, it was really cool to see that bear, if only very briefly!  I love your "Enjoy Summer" picture!  Happy First Day of Summer to everyone!

That's nice your Aunt enjoyed her day Chris.

You guys are all the best!  It really starts my day out right to get my morning coffee and come straight to Hang With Friends. ~ Mindy

Comment by Plinius on June 21, 2013 at 6:26am

Thanks, Ian, but no thanks. What else can we do except try to create the world we want to live in? And Aunt was the one who spontaneously visited and welcomed me, when she found out that her nephew had a girlfriend; that was a wonderful gift to me!

Comment by Ian Mason on June 21, 2013 at 4:24am

Welcome back, Mindy. That sounds like a great break you've had.

Bon apettit, Joan. Glad to hear that your taste buds are working.

Chris, that must have been a moving experience with your aunt. It's all too seldom that family take that kind of trouble with their older relatives so thank you on behalf of carers everywhere, including me :-)

 

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