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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 21. 81 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 27, 2013 at 8:33pm

Melinda, you might consider cultivating one or two new friendships,  people with whom you share common interests, whose lives don't revolve around religion. Then tell your old friend that you don't feel compatible with her any more, that you've drifted apart. I wouldn't lie, even a white lie about alcohol. I'd tell her how you actually feel when people talk about religion. Be clear that you still respect her and don't think badly of her, it's that particular behavior you can no longer abide.  Say it's not her, that you've changed. Well that's what I'd try. It's best not to cut yourself off socially, keep some friends in your life. This is a "Do as I say, not as I do", because I really haven't got any flesh and blood friends. I got bored with them, or I changed my interests, or they aged out (groups became too young for common interest), or the drive got too long for me. Perhaps I'm not the best person to advise on friendship.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2013 at 6:54pm
Remember, there are 7,113,105,376 human beings on the planet and some of them will bring you enlightenment, ideas, perspective, and a sense of being part of all that is.
Comment by Megan S. M. on April 27, 2013 at 6:43pm

It's hard to be tolerant of something like religion, at least for me, that causes so much harm.

But my family is super religious so I tolerate their not-so-subtle/friendly religious promotions and talk because I value that relationship enough. When everyone around is religious, tolerance seems to be the only way to not be ostracized.

Booklover, that is a tough situation :/

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2013 at 6:38pm

Have a red hatter day, Melinda, it is a state of mind. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2013 at 6:36pm

Melinda, you are so patient. Do you like being patient? If you like it, keep doing it; if you don't, then claim a Red Hatter Age; it is a state of mind.

Comment by Jim DePaulo on April 27, 2013 at 12:43pm

Booklover,

You don't like drinking, you are an Atheist and your "friend" seems to be not only pushy but boring.

She went on and on about this catholic thing her daughter is going to and how great it is because her daughter will be immersed in Catholicism"

It all appears that you are wasting 4 evenings of your life.  The beers wouldn't give me a headache but she sure would.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 26, 2013 at 10:35pm

Buddy is a pretty cat, Joseph.

LOL, Napoleon, butt doesn't that comparison put down rear ends. I happen to enjoy the beauty of buns.

Have a great weekend, Folks!

Comment by Pat on April 26, 2013 at 8:15pm

Napoleon, I hope that photo is not copyrighted, because I'm going to use it. It's great!

Comment by Joseph Corder on April 26, 2013 at 6:36pm

Look under latest activity or go to my page to view!!  This is when we found Buddy or he found us?  He is bigger now (10 pounds)!  More pictures to come!  I might use a picture as my avatar(of me)! I would like to place my pictures like Steph, but I don't know how!  Can somebody help me out?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 25, 2013 at 11:30pm

Napoleon Bonaparte.  The Evolution of God is great! Thanks for the Dog shows Humanity video too. I could have done without the cigarette ad, though. I think there are many anecdotes of dogs showing “humanity”, empathy and concern.

Joan, your Ramallah concert link gave me an ad.

Good point about how sports can lead to working together, Ian.

Cute LOLcat, Steph. That’s just what we do, live around our cats. Though I do “explain” that the recliner is mine from time to time.

Good luck with finals Megan and Steph.

Patricia, thanks for the astronaut video.

I had a strange day. During breakfast my glasses fell apart. That upset our routine. Got it repaired a couple of hours later. It felt peculiar  to miss reading the news, like walking around with a little hole in my brain all day. At least I could tell it was a lovely sunny day despite the blurring.

 

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