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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2013 at 1:00pm

"The Declaration of Independence announces the sublime truth, that all power comes from the people. This was a denial, and the first denial of a nation, of the infamous dogma that God confers the right upon one man to govern others.

"It was the first grand assertion of the dignity of the human race. It declared the governed to be the source of power, and in fact denied the authorityof any and all gods. Through the ages of slavery — through the weary centuries of the lash and chain, God was the acknowledged ruler of the world. To enthrone man, was to dethrone God."

Robert G. IngersollIndividuality (1873).

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2013 at 1:00pm

A very interesting discussion takes place that I want to share with you. 

"Dr. Allan H. Clark

"It has always seemed to me that Epicurus's riddle is the simplest way to raise the main problem of theodicy—how do you justify the belief in a good and just god in the presence of manifest evil? The standard Christian answer is that this world is a test and that the balance toward good is restored in the promised afterlife. To answer that there is Ingersoll's little verse:

 

Happiness is the only good.

The place to be happy is here.

The time to be happy is now.

The way to be happy is to make others so."

~ Robert G. Ingersoll, Variant, as it appears on a manuscript copy he jotted down for a fan (26 March 1897)"

 

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 7, 2013 at 10:10am

Felaine, can't see an injection in your rear?  Take a mirror. : )

I've watched many injections now, and I seem to feel more pain when I watch than when I don't.  But even then it's just a small prick.  No big deal.

I love the "Imagine no Religion" story.

Comment by booklover on April 7, 2013 at 9:33am

Joan, that body paint is weird!!!  People are so creative!  Her feet look like the tiger's tongue!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 10:56pm

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Comment by booklover on April 6, 2013 at 7:56pm

Comment by Patricia on April 6, 2013 at 6:34pm

I had lumbar laminectomy as well.....best thing I ever did, & although I do have some permanent sciatic nerve damage, I wouldn't have it any other way!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 6, 2013 at 6:10pm

Felaine, a "lumbar laminectomy and fusion" sounds really serious. I hope you found relief!!! My procedure is a simple out-patient procedure so I won't be needing a room, but I like the idea of covering the Catholic Scarecrow with "Imagine no Religion" sign. Maybe I should go prepared for when I am in recovery. 

I will start looking now for a film of the procedure I expect to have. 

Happy cat-sitting, and thank you for your care. This is a snap compared to what you had. 

Needles don't hurt at all, now ... remember those huge things they used to draw blood? Reminded me of needles used on cows. Nothing has hurt so far, except I had to go off Aleve and baby aspirin for several days for one test, and my joints hurt. I am back on my regular Rx routine and have no pain now. 

My life-span is at a good time, except for the mess our political and economic system is in. I liken human thinking and behavior as appropriate for beasts, but Homo sapiens should be able to rise above a beak-and-claw existence and stop using violence to gain power. We now have the capacity to reason, negotiate, compromise, and to create a just world. For those who would terrorize, they could be hunted down, singled out, put on trial, and allow the population and cultures to live without fear of bombs, or bullets. 

Comment by sk8eycat on April 6, 2013 at 5:38pm

In '09, I wanted a video of my lumbar laminectomy and fusion, but Doc said it would be done with microscopic instruments, and he would be too busy to have a cameraman/woman in the OR, anyway.

I found out later that the procedure took FOUR HOURS!  I don't remember anything between being wheeled out of the prep room and waking up in my own room (utterly painless...I totally understand why/how some people become addicted), and the first thing I saw was the Catholic Scarecrow on the wall.  I asked to have it removed, but they refused, so as soon as I was on my feet (3 days later) I covered it with my FFRF "Imagine No Religion" T-shirt.  Doc (very young secular Jew) laughed so hard when he saw it that I thought he was going to literally ROTFL.

There are places on the net where you can see animated (bloodless) depictions of almost any type of surgery; you just have to hunt for them.

I'll be off the net...cat-sitting... when you have your surgery (April 14 to the 26th), so I'm wishing you the best of luck now, and I'll keep on thinking about you till I get back home and check in here.

Idaho: I've watched my own blood draws and injections since I was a teen; IMO it hurts less when I know what's going on. Of course I can't see an injection in my rear...

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 6, 2013 at 2:49pm

Joan, the expanded-cheeks chipmunk is cute. 

I think Matt D. dropping the pen is great, and I very much like your post that talked about rats beating humans.  

I’m glad you’re ready for surgery.  You may be braver than I am, in wanting to watch, but a few years ago, I started watching when my blood was drawn.  My curiosity finally overpowered my chickenness.  Also, when I had a colonoscopy, I wanted to watch, but I was unconcious until the last 10 minutes.  But I did get to see a watermelon seed in my large colon.  : )

A video is a great idea.  Next time I’ll ask if I can get one.

 

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