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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

Saving Number 90 - From Seth Andrews (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 1. 9 Replies

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Human Rights for Atheists, Agnostics and Secularists

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jun 27. 11 Replies

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Something we should all think about.....

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jun 19. 2 Replies

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Religious Calling (Mrs. Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller Jun 17. 0 Replies

Very curious - a Betty Bowers video with NO Betty Bowers!  Yahweh IS here, though, and he's gotten all 21st century with his own cell phone!!!  Can't help but notice that he's a bit selective with just WHO he wants to talk to.  Meh ... got to keep…Continue

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Ontario Premier, Kathleen Wynne

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Randall Smith Jun 15. 1 Reply

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Comment by sk8eycat on March 3, 2013 at 1:26pm

Joan, I have not thought things through as well as you have, but I do find it difficult to remain silent when I disagree with someone...I want them to understand my point of view on whatever subject we're discussing.  It would be nice if I could get them to agree with me, but I just want them to understand how and why I arrived at a particular conclusion.

I get tired of hearing the old saws like"Someone in the church must have hurt you badly," or, "You are angry at god...blah-blah-blah." How can I possibly be angry at something that doesn't exist?  I do get angry with people who insist that a Bronze Age book of myths and legends is the perfect guide to life, and want to change our country's laws to coincide with the cruelties in that book.

And as much as I love "Hair," I lose patience with people who believe that the position of the planets and constellations (as seen from Earth) at the time of one's birth have anything to do with reality.

And sometimes, I just like to rant.  I'm snorting and growling right now over some "junk science" that's been in the news lately ... blaming feral cats for the decline of the bird population in the US.  NObody has actually gone out and counted the number of kills by cats and compared them to climate change, habitat destruction, and other predators.

And there I go again.  Sorry.  = 8 0

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 3, 2013 at 11:12am

For me, it depends. Is my goal to maintain the friendship or speak my truth. If a response is interest in knowing more, I can engage in a discussion that incudes listening and asserting; if it is aggression, I can aggress; if the other changes the subject, I can change the subject as well. 

Now I have choices to make because there are always consequences to an option chosen. If I want to save a relationship, the issue remains in the background and will come up again. If I remain silent, that implies agreement and my point of view remains unsaid ... do I have to remain silent in order to have the friendship? If so, my obligation to speak is more important than the individual. My goal is not convert another human being to my way of thinking. I have absolutely no interest in what a person thinks unless it impacts my life; I am interested in how they think through their issues. 

In my 77 years of living, I have not found it beneficial to me or to my values to remain silent. When I think, reason, compare and contrast evidence and draw conclusion, I develop a value. If that value has validity, I stand on that foundation and speak.

 

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 3, 2013 at 11:10am

Tim Conway was always my favorite.  Sometime he got people laughing uncontrollably. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 3, 2013 at 11:08am

No idea where he's going, but he's makin' good time.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 3, 2013 at 10:12am

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Comment by booklover on March 3, 2013 at 8:14am

 GREAT nauture videos!  In 1970 I was 3.  My Mom was pregnant and asked me what we should name the baby if it was a girl.  I said "Carol Burnett!" lol We named her Lisa instead. :)

Comment by Patricia on March 3, 2013 at 12:43am

Carol Burnett is my favorite comedy of all time, & that outtake is hilarious!!!!! Thanks!!!!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 2, 2013 at 11:58pm

For Steph:
Always Share Your Hobbies With Your Friends!

Comment by Patricia on March 2, 2013 at 11:10pm

WOW!!!!! What an experience!

How's this for keeping calm?


 

A tourist camp in Africa.

You can tell that the guy was stunned by his experience.  

 

This is a great video of the Silverback Gorilla coming into camp for a visit.


Quite an unusual experience. Not sure I could have stayed that calm
.


Click here Wild Gorilla Encounter

 

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