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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 25. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2013 at 9:48am

sk8eycat, that is an interesting idea! Anything to calm people during the hub-bub of travelling will be useful. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2013 at 9:31am

I like that lizard photo with cats. Funny!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 18, 2013 at 8:58am
Melinda, what an awful event! I know you were expecting it and were not caught unaware. But still, the chores to protect and dry out stuff! Is the rain continuing?

I feel wonderful! Just a tiny bit of pain and I have a heck of a time finding words. I finally gave up yesterday and just read my mail and offered just a few simple comments. I feel muzzled by my locked brain. That will pass as soon as the chemicals clear out.

My granddaughter, Laurie, who just passed her home-health care course, is coming over today to remove part of the bandages. Just think, that dear little baby has all grown up and now giving me care. When she was a baby, she didn't crawl at first, she just rolled around until she got to where she wanted to go.
I hope today goes well for you and your husband!
Comment by Grinning Cat on April 17, 2013 at 9:44pm

I hope that cat likes Cheez-Its (only distantly related to cheezburgers)!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 17, 2013 at 6:09pm
Ian! That's the spirit!
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 17, 2013 at 12:18am

Thanks, Ian for participating in the I Love the Arctic Rally.

Restraining order cat is cute, Steph.

Happy Wednesday, everyone. (It's 1:16AM here)

Comment by Ian Mason on April 16, 2013 at 3:56pm

As an enthusiastic jogger/runner, I'm saddened deeply by what's happened in Boston. For me such events are a celebration of life and it is a tragedy to have one marred by sadistic violence. I wish there was something I could do.

Something I can do (Joan, take note) is to attend the "I love the Arctic" rally in Copenhagen on Sunday, the "Human Banner". It's an attempt to keep the oil companies away from the Arctic. I've been to Greenland once and would hate to see that beautiful, rugged nature murdered.

Comment by Steph S. on April 16, 2013 at 5:45am

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 16, 2013 at 1:54am
I hope you won't mind, Ruth, that I post this on "Hang with Friends" as well as "Thermohlaine Circulation". I just want to say to my friends: No! I don't "like" this that is taking place in Boston. However, there have been those warning us for years. I first learned of the potential problem in 1959 on a flight to Alaska with a glaciologist seat mate who told an incredible story of ice changes taking place. Who would listen to him then? I just thought it was an interesting job.

Hubris! Human beings think Earth is here to serve humans, and to use water, soils and air as sewers. Well, the chickens have come home and it isn't a pretty sight. We clearly are not going to be able to stop this process taking place now. Because we can't stop it, scapegoating has already begun in earnest. Not being in control of our lives, not being able to predict what will happen ... the formula for depression and anxiety as well as inducing crazy thinking.

So, we can be afraid, angry, helpless, hopeless and worry. What good will that do anyone?

It seems to me the first thing to do is be flexible, go with the flow type of thinking, marshall resources and prepare for a ride of an eon.

In the meantime, I'm off to see the wizard tomorrow. You schedule a mammogram, please.
https://www.google.com/search?q=Breast+Cancer+ribbon&source=lnm...
Comment by tom sarbeck on April 16, 2013 at 1:40am

Are we expecting better from ourselves, not specially created but descended from pond scum, also known as blue-green algae or cyanobacteria?

That's easy for me acknowledge; I have no children whose future concerns me.

I am saddened a bit; we homo semi sapiens are just beginning to get a handle on crimes against humanity. I'm annoyed that our own recent offenders might get away. Do you think any of them are staying in the US of A because they fear prosecution if they go to Europe?

Some of us will survive, but dammit I won't be able, decades from now, to look in on those who survived our feckless ways.

Hm-mm, during all those hours I was hearing nuns talking about heaven; I was imagining myself rocking away and looking to earth to see what folks are doing. Like Mark Twain, I thought their idea of heaven was no place I wanted to spend any time.

 

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