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Comment by booklover on April 19, 2013 at 8:13am

Good Morning Friends!  Wow Carl, now THAT was a picture of flooding.  We did not have that at all by my house, just a ton of rain, and our basement got a little water in it.  It was NOT a flood in our basement, due to my husband staying up all night getting the water out of the window-wells!  We had to pull the carpet back and put fans on it, but that was it.  There IS flooding in our city.  The park near us looks like a lake!

So yesterday, rain and about 60 degrees.  Windy all night.  I just took the dog out and it's cold and there are little tiny ice balls falling!WTH?!

At least it's Friday! :)

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2013 at 7:29am

The Netherlands are not really cooler than e.g. Jackson, MI, USA, Debra, as far as I can tell, but I like it here. My parents were of the christian reformed church; the sort of church you get after about twenty schisms, every schism adding dozens of don'ts.

Yes, very good to see Joan back! :-)!  

 

Comment by Ian Mason on April 19, 2013 at 4:22am

Sounds like you're back on form, Joan. I hope the discomfort is minimal and the prospects good.

I get new JWs at regular intervals. The majority of people (about 98%) of people in this block of flats are pensioners and the God Squad must think that they're easy converts, what with The Reaper sharpening his scythe close behind them. They've got me out of bed in the morning after a night-shift too and I've slammed the door on them.

I read somewhere recently the comment that the news isn't getting worse. It's just the coverage of it that's more comprehensive. As far as climate change is concerned, I don't think that's the case. New records seem to be set every year: hot, cold, drought, rain, snow. There's a lot of evidence for those who care to take notice.

I hope the flood recede soon for those affected and that the insurance companies pay out without pulling the "act of God" number.

Have a great weekend all.

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2013 at 4:14am

I grew up in a fundie church myself, so I know that nothing anyone says will make an impression on a xtian. If I used agressive language they'd only hope to get a cushion on their chair in heaven because of that. But I just want to be left alone.

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2013 at 3:57am

I never stopped to find out which church they belong to, it's not important. And I won't argue - only reminded them that this apartment block is full of people who work night shifts and they've just woken them. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 3:12am

Excellent response Chris! Good for you!

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2013 at 3:08am

They're early today; the people who knock on the door. I told them: Of course I won't listen to you. You never caught me on your doorstep telling you what to think!

Now I'll hug my cats so they can help me to lower my bloodpressure...

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 2:08am
The photos are dreadful! I don't want to even think of the repairs needed after this. Thanks Carl.
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 19, 2013 at 1:24am

Flying Atheist and Melinda, I am so very sorry to learn of your flooding. 

OK! It has started, all the chaos coming from every direction, flooding, the bombers, an explosion and as Ruth said, this is the new normal. People feeling out of control unable to make things right, feel frustration, depression, anxiety, fear, blaming, and get conflicting, unverified accusations. The job now is to stay calm and stay focused. 

The thermohaline circulation decline will make the weather unpredictable. Heavy rains on the Great Lakes area will make terrible hazards. You probably don't want to know what is happening there, but if you have information, you may be able to take measures to reduce damage to your property. If the main rain is north of the Great Lakes, the flow will be north. If south, it will flow into the Mississippi drainage system. 

During the last ice age, Ice scoured off the soils all across Canada and scoured out the Great Lakes, dumping the sand and gravels south of the USA/Canadian border, leaving huge sand and gravel mounds all across the moraine's southern edge. Sands and gravels become saturated and water rises to flood stage. If you are in a low spot of the moraine the probability of getting flooded is high. If you are on a high spot, you have better probability of escaping the floods. Make an analysis to decide where you are located in elevation on those moraine piles. 

The good news is, sands and gravels drain fast if there is a place for the water to go. If the Mississippi floods, it will take some time to drain. 

Ruth, your thermohaline circulation decline illustration is very helpful. At least we know what causes the outrageous weather, even if we can do little to stop it at this point. Let's hope everybody gets the message. 

I am so sick of delusional people telling us who is to blame when the fact is, they have a very faulty Ouija board.

 

Comment by Plinius on April 19, 2013 at 12:45am

What a lot of bad news! I hope Melinda and Carl - and all the other victims of course - can get back to normal soon!

 

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